I don't beat off every day because I have Sz - root cause analysis

DX'd - Other
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whatever! - lol, I have stated my opinion.

I bike 100 miles per week to relieve stress, tension, and for pure enjoyment, I do not masturbate.

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I guess that makes you a very fit prude - Not going to respond to anything else you write

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guess so! at least I don’t sit home alone and masturbate and brag about it, call it what you want :slight_smile:

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I sense a lot of “motivated reasoning” on this topic.

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I’m not sure what you mean, but I’m done. I’ve stated my case and my experience with this topic, I’ve spent more time, energy, and educational background calories on it.

it just irks me to see all this masturbation going on, it gives the disease a bad name, not that it has a good name already.

where in the literature do you read “Sz invokes masturbation”

masturbation is comon in mental illness, asbergers syndrome, sex addictions.

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Masturbating once a day for 5-10 minutes a day is not sex addiction. You say your ex husband masturbated 2 hours a day. I find that hard to believe from a physical standpoint but even if true it’s a far cry from once daily masturbation.

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I think it strays into the territory of an obsessive, over valued idea/belief.

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I wouldn’t call her a liar. That implies deception. I think she really believes what she believes and no amount of intelligent rebuttal will dissuade her.

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I don’t think it’s fair to imply that her view is not intelligent because you disagree with it.

One of the hallmarks of humanity is our ability to elevate ourselves above the animals and control our carnal urges. It’s a shame that this really only applies to some of us.

Daily masturbation, is it safe? Biologically, sure. Morally, socially, not so much.

If you knew your neighbor was a chronic masturbator, would you shake his hand? Would you invite him over for dinner with the family? It’s creepy.

Look at Pee Wee Herman. Caught once masturbating in a porno theater and his career was destroyed.

Yeah it’s fashionable these days to embrace jerking off, so go for it. Just don’t expect all of us to think you’re not a creep when we find out you’re planning your day around it.

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Ok,madturbating once a day it think is not harmful or wrong but I fact healthy,if you masturbate 2hrs a day,than you better go to hell

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Since when has something that takes 5-10 minutes or less if done once a day ‘planning your day around it’? I get the impression you are being confrontational for confrontation’s sake.

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Only the first part of my post was directed at you. If you feel that my “planning your day” comment was referring to you, then maybe it fits?

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I never implied or suggested that i thought it was referring to me. I do however seriously doubt that vast percentages of the population are wantonly planning their days around masturbation.
Nobody would question that excessive masturbation like excessive anything is a problem ,but in no sensible way does once daily masturbation fall into that category.

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Like I wrote, go for it. Just don’t expect everyone to accept your hobby.

Is this news? Do you really think it will be embraced everywhere?

Go ahead, tell the people you know in real life that you are a daily masturbator. Watch their reactions then come back and admit I’m right.

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I masturbate infrequently now. Last time was over 2 weeks ago. Just as a matter of interest what would you deem an acceptable rate of masturbation ?

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Don’t need to know this.

Every third Thursday except Thanksgiving or during Lent.

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Whack off all you want kid, it’s your business what you do in your private life. Just try and keep it private eh? Good to see malvok back and as entertaining as ever.

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thank you, exactly my point. I am just repeating what I learned, because I was married to a pee wee herman. here is the type of dr my pee wee herman went to for treatment

Specialties:

				Sexual Disorders and Behaviors

				Depressive and Bipolar Disorders

				Anxiety and Panic Disorders

				Anger and Stress Management

				Behavior Disorders
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But what can he do to stop masturbation daily?

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he provided therapy and recommend anti depressents. therapy was to replace an activity or hobby with the masturbation.

i was asked if I was going to help, that sent me over the top. I gave my now exhusband 6 months to stop actually, and at 6 months and a week, after our wedding anniversary, I found him red-handed at the computer again. I blew, and we divorced.

my husband was dx with obsessive compusive disorder and obsessive compulsive personality disorder and I believe he had autism/asbergers as well, but that wsa never dx by the physician at the time. another behavior was washing his hands until the skin came off.

I was told that with the ocpd, he didn’t believe is odd behaviors were at all odd. this was true for some of his other behaviors as well, but I’m floored to hear so many folks repeating what my ex would try to tell me regarding the masturbation habits.

typically when I attempt to explain these dx, and the hand washing, people joke, which does he do first, wash his hands, then masturbate, or the other way around :slight_smile: