It does bug me. He’s met my bro but not showing any enthusiasm to meet family. And I know of no one he knows.
I have a problem with a guy at the moment. He acts like he cares but he doesnt prove it in actions. So im left wondering…mhmm he likes me but why he doesnt do this and that…im thinking of ditching him…i cant wonder all my life.
But the sad thing is that when.i dump him i will wonder…what if i dumped a guy who cares about me? But im just gonna have to do it anyway.
Seems like he has something to hide maybe, or has no intention of a serious relationship
1 Like
You’ve been posting a lot about your relationship recently and none of it has been positive.
Are you really happy with this guy?
It doesn’t seem like it.
You’re not enjoying your sexuality,
He’s not introducing you to his friends or family,
And has no interest in meeting yours.
There are a lot of problems.
Most of the guys I’ve dated met my family,
Even a good many I wasn’t serious about,
Waiting ten months for such an occasion is a massive red flag.
4 Likes
I really like him and I enjoy spending time with him but with regards to sex I don’t care for it. I do think I need to end it , it’s not.lookimg good.
2 Likes
I think its ridiculous he hasn’t introduced you to anyone he’s close to,
What does he say when you talk about it?
1 Like
He says he likes to keep things personal. Because people ask a lot of questions. He says he’s a private person. And feels awkward discussing relationships with family.
I’m not sure I should speak to him.today he’s going on holiday.
That’s super weird.
You just have to decide what you’re comfortable with,
If it bothers you,
End it.
2 Likes
I agree with @GoldenRex.
1 Like
I dunno…
The sex in a 10 month relationship should be crazy fun. Another red flag if it isn’t.
2 Likes
@anon80629714, And just why isn’t he taking you with him?? Another red flag.
Okay. That’s the third red flag. One from goldenrex…one from gina…and one from me.
1 Like
Because I was going to go. My family member passed away so he’s going with his parents
1 Like
Oh, ok. Still two valid red flags @anon80629714.
I’m tired of red. Maybe orange?
Haha I decided to ask him.upfront if he’s even mentioned me to his family. He said he finds it hard to talk about his love life to his family but that he will. I said I’d help him…and I also said he’s meeting my family end of. He knows how it make me feel. As if he’s not serious. So he will and I’ll help him meet them.
This topic was automatically closed 14 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.