I can't do it, nope nope nope

I’m freaking out. I’m not going on a date. He’s too sexual for me. I don’t even want to have sex. I don’t even want to kiss. I have no business going on a date. I’m cancelling. I can’t handle this anxiety.

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Well, it isn’t the end of the world if you don’t go. Maybe you’ll feel more like it in the future.
Maybe if another chance pops up sometime you can reach a happy medium and maybe the guy will be less sexual and you’ll be a little more sexual.

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Yea, you’re right. Maybe it will be a better match later.

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A guy being creepy is a pretty good reason to cancel a date.

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Yea, you’re right, he is being creepy.

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Do what you can handle when you can handle it.

:heart:

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yes, thenk you @velociraptor

If you not feeling ready and your instincts are telling you not to go , go with your instinct.

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Well shucks. There will be someone you click better with.

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If he’s already being aggressively sexual and you haven’t even met yet, that would be a huge red flag for me. Especially if you’re not looking specifically for sex. Good call cancelling. Take care of yourself.

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:cowboy_hat_face: :revolving_hearts: :-1:

:frowning:

I’ve decided I’m only going to communicate in big emojis from now on.

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I love it, the new big emojis are so much more expressive too

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Forget him! No one kisses on a first date unless it is George Clooney…

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He’s famous for having waited 2 years for his first kiss on a blind date he clicked with and ended up dating for four years.

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Ikr, you don’t plan a first kiss ahead of time, it’s only if it goes well and if you like each other. Jeeze, some people are so pushy.

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I agree with @Alice. Trust your instincts.

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I prefer a gentleman. So I’ll wait for one.

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Good thinking! My husband was a perfect gentleman when we started dating. He wasn’t pushy at all. And he’s a really good guy.

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Awesome. You are so lucky.

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