It’s been straight 5 days that I watched porn,it’s really bad,I really want to try stop it
Masturbation is okay,but surely not pornography
porn is really addictive. Maybe you could try and go celibate ?
Is it a case of a form of hypersexuality? Tends to be worse for me around the humid periods.
Meds are also surpose to help with too much libdo. .So might be something to look at.
Personally I think you’re just at the age of sexual peak so can be frustrating. With porn being so available on the net it makes it hard not to look. Maybe mix it up a bit with errotic reading material as the brain is the biggest sex organ and needs just as much stimulation. On most porn sites there is often sections people can post their own stories. So won’t cost you any extra if your going the free route.
Sex toys,…All else fails…Cold showers…Cold showers are extreme but can help…
Of corse nothing beats a partner with the same libdo as yourself and will make a big difference in your life.
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Man porn is uhh, pretty gross when you really think about it. Other naked people, a best they’re getting some railing done, but dude why would you want to watch that?
I wouldn’t feel to bad man. No one knows your doing it until you make posts like these lol. I used to look at a lot of porn.
If you feel bad about it then you should stop, other then that it’s just pretty funny.
I don’t really get the appeal of porn any more, like I said pretty gross. They’re either ugly people or they are doing some nasty things.
I still look at stills every once in a while and the occasional video. You figure out to best manage this ■■■■ with time.
Don’t feel guilty.
Hah I used to think about sex so much, now the only time I do is when it’s in front of me.
@jukebox,it’s really addictive,I will really try my best to stop watching it,I think it’s harmful overall
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I remember the struggle. You’ll win it man, don’t worry.
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What’ll really help you is if you find a girlfriend.
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Hello,@dreamscape I thought your suggestion was great,I can change video pornography maybe to lighter picture type or just plain word stories porn…it sounds better than watching videos one
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Hey @BryanAshley,would love to have a girlfriend.i need a girl who can understand me,accept me while I also understand and accept her back,it would be perfect,haha
My last relationship cause me some distress and I think we went to the relationship too fast,a lot was because of our communication style is unsuitable,so this time I don’t want to rush into a relationship unless it really feels right.i will take my time…
She probably needs to accept that I do not communicate well with people and I can act strange or weird at times.But I believe these can be improve,it’s just a bad part of me
Then your gonna be looking at a lot of porn lol. I haven’t had a gf in like 3 years. Miss the company more then the sex. I’ve never really been afraid to take care of myself, always feel a little guilty afterwards, like well that probably wasn’t necessary. No one cares though every body does it at some point. Just try to keep it to three times a week or less I think that is a good balance for a male.
If you can just use your imagination instead of the porn.
Hope you find a sweet girl to take care of you.
It’s ok to have standards but you can’t be to picky or you’ll never get anywhere.
Just ignore the mental illness thing you don’t have to tell any one.
Good luck out there.
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Yea,using imagination would be cool 
I think I have problem with self esteem and insecurity,all mental ones.I have work,I can make my own living and I am physically fit,there is just no perfect perfect person in this world maybe,haha
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Yeah dude it’s all about not thinking about that stuff, everyone gets vulnerable to doubt. But there isn’t much you can do, just gotta be yourself. Luckily that is a very attractive quality. Imitators and people who are trying to be someone there not get laid eventually but I have a theory that they have to make more attempts and approaches to multiple women. Genuine people go well together.
There’s nothing wrong with you man. It’ll happen.
Any girls you work with maybe?
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dont worry about it man, its better than going and getting drunk or wasted everyday.
this suggestion may be frowned upon but, you live in malaysia right? why dont you just go to a massage parlour?
most of my friends and i if we arnt dating anyone or met anyone in a while may just go hit up a massage parlour. its convenient lol and its pretty fun. good times all around
or try tinder? or plentyoffish. I have met girls off plentyoffish. im suppose to meet with one from tinder for the first time next week or something ill see if it actually happens.
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My workplace is all man and one woman(my mum),got to look else where for girls
@levelJ1,I think everyone has their own struggle or bad habit,some struggle with pornography like me,others with smoking or drugs…I think it’s better for me to cut down porn
About the massage parlor is a place I sometimes think of going,maybe if I feel ready I would go lol,it’s not proud to have sex with a sexual problem,especially if the problem is due to the medication…
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Yea thats one of the MAIN reasons its taken me 18 yrs to finally seriously consider synthetic meds.Its been about as long since i’ve been layed so I gotta stay away from porn or it could fire me up too bad.Another poster suggested celibacy I thought not having sex with anybody else was celibacy. I mean you gotta release sometime it’s just unhealthy to not.I also believe each has their own natural quata. (for lack of a better word)
Sucks man, back in high school and the workplace that’s the only way I’ve ever gotten with girls. I don’t really have the balls or desire or really even the opportunity to just try and pick up chicks. Tried online dating, went no where. All the girls on there make themselves sound like over achieving busy bodies. Which is just to much trouble for me. Cause it’s like well, I’m jobless live with my mom and do nothing but smoke tobacco and drink coffee and chat on the Internet.
I do wonder how many sz girls might be in this town. For me that’d be a perfect place to start. It’s all I really have to talk about, mental illness becomes really interesting once it’s forced on you. It still ■■■■■■■ sucks the whole time.
■■■■ the schiz.
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I never had any problem with porn addiction. I always desensitized to it. After I watch porn for a while it loses its kick. I knew a guy who was addicted to porn, though. One time I saw him spend $60.00 on porn and then tear it all up. Some people say it objectifies women. Others disagree. They say the women’s movement is split down the middle on pornography. As for myself, I don’t know. I’ve read books by some of the writers who were writing before porn became so available, and women are pretty objectified in their writing.
yes masturbation is fine…even if you do it 10 times a day (well 10 times is pretty high !) but you get the picture.
But I agree watching Pornography is pathetic and bad.
Its better to get into a relationship and have sex.
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That’s kind of how I think about it. I don’t really ever look forward to doing it but when the opportunity arises it’s like well why not.
Thanks for starting this thread gtx. Good talk(semi sarcastic)
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