Ive been looking at porn more and more now a days. Its really starting to get ingrained in to my mind because all I think about all the time is sex. I know its been like 13-15 years since Ive been with a woman but I have to find a better way to deal with things. A better way than looking at porn. I would like to meet someone but I think it would be hard with my situation. I even look at my pdoc in a sexual way and that shouldnt be. Also, everytime I see a girl on tv or a women in a store or where ever my mind jumps straight to sex. I think its all the porn causing this. I need to find a healthier way to deal with this. I just dont know what that would be… I dont know. Just thought I would share.
Although reading your post again sounds like hypersexuality
Maybe I do have that. I just thought it was the porn and lack of sex causing this. Maybe it something different though. I wouldnt know what to do for hypersexuality anyway. Its not like im going to talk to my pdoc about it. Especially considering I am having thought about her too. I think maybe cutting down on the porn might help…at least I hope it will.
Yeah man, it’ll take a long time for you to undo what you’ve done to your psycho sexual complex. It’ll never totally go away, it’ll always be there waiting for you to think about it. If you can say goodbye to porn you’ll probably feel a lot better. I’ve seen some truly disgusting ■■■■ on the Internet, luckily it’s been long enough I don’t remember most of it. Gotta at least balance it, I mean I still look at prom every once in a while, if you feel like doing it it won’t set you back to far, unless you fall into an I must look at porn trap. It’s all about balance. Gotta distract yourself from your sexuality until that becomes your default state. It’s completely possible to revert to being a normal innocent(non sexual) dude. Might take a couple years though. Find other things you enjoy doing and focus on those. You’ll be alright buddy.
I looked at a lot of prom in highschool and college. Then I started working full time and didn’t really have time for it. Since then even though I don’t have ■■■■ to do it’s been pretty infrequent and less in depth. For a while there I was totally sexualized in my mind and this led to social troubles.
It helps to have more normal thinking in your life instead of thinking about sex all the time. But don’t worry man it’s also natural to think about from time to time.
Be strong man, put this behind you and you’ll feel like a better person.
When I first got a pc and net access I spent like 2 mo. CONSTANTLY on some porn site but for me it was the stories that I liked I mean it was like a a whole new world that I stumbled on because I think I accidentally clicked on a ad and BAM into a porn site.
Up til, then it had been 5 or so yrs since id been with anybody so I was choking the weasel that WHOLE 2 mo then because of over use I guess I wore it out.
I could still get off but it wasn’t fully erect. MAN !!! that scared me straight because it lasted for maybe a week and that whole time I thought I had E.D. I even thought it might be contagious and I got it off the net LOL.
Since then I stay away from porn also maybe cuz im desensitized to it it just isnt the same as it was when I was younger.
Yeah you eventually get desensitized to the imagery. Thankfully there is nothing like actually holding onto a woman, so that still works.
I can relate to your story petester. Porn has led to some sexual dysfunction to me. I found what works is to leave it alone until your actually having sex. Seems to make things work better that way. Doesn’t hurt to have a wank every once in a while though.
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