Y’all I am so frustrated with myself. I went to college, wasn’t used to the freedom, so I partied, had a lot of sex, and didn’t give a ■■■■ about my classes. So now I’m in a predicament where I have to settle for a job instead of having the career I’ve always dreamed of. & it just breaks my heart BC I had BIG dreams of having this great career and a family. But all that is just gone out the window BC of my stupid mistakes smh. & the family part well I’m not bummed about that really BC I choose to be single forever but the school and career part I am FURIOUS with myself about.
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I hope you can eventually forgive yourself. 
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Could you work on a second bachelor’s degree and be more serious about it this time?
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Why can’t you go back to school?
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I can’t go back to school because neither I nor my parents can afford it. & I don’t qualify for any financial aid
Can’t you take out student loans?
That’s what most of us had to do.
I already owe thousands for the first time. But I just found out I can go as an independent when I turn 24 so that’s a weight lifted off
BUT since I owe loans even when I can file as an independent that might disqualify me for financial aid. Uggggghhhhh
pick up these cards and deal them and have fun with it. you can’t kick yourself forever. it hurts.
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You’re absolutely right. Gotta make the best of it
I did college without partying and my degree didn’t pay off. Now I’m incapable of being socially normal member of society, now I just say ■■■■ it and who the ■■■■ cares what I do
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The law cares and we care. Please don’t get into any trouble and compound you pain. @Winterblues
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@gobeyond I didn’t mean it like that. Took me a while to process what you said. I don’t party. I just don’t care if my education meant anything. Cause it didn’t…
Yeah It’s sad to look back
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