Maybe you have some advice?
I am honestly doing something to become a better one.
I’ve find a job, I quitted alcohol… without alcohol I have almost zero anger outbursts.
but sometimes I dislike my personality. I mean, character traits. Some of them.
I also need to become more confident and self-loving.
And some people doesn’t respect me no matter what I do.
Your advices?
Don’t doubt, just change.
Good one 
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This might not refer to you. But there’s a philosophy which believes that your personality is perfect as it is but there are ‘3 poisons’ within it that can be removed.
Idk, it’s, just wat came to mind wen I think of my own personality.
It’s very nice philosophical idea @Zoe
You like philosophy ??
Yes I like philosophical stuff but idk much at all.
What are the 16 Personality Types? By [Myer Briggs] + Free Tests.
After reading this I am more confused about my personality. My personality jumps all over the place depending on the situation. I also have a sense of personality from my parents. Sometimes I like to be outgoing and other times I like to be isolated by myself. I love privacy in life and don’t like living with others except my parents who give me the privacy I need. I love being around people but I don’t like living with them. I would accept a significant other who loves people also but needs a private life like me also.
It seems when you respect your own personality confidence can become established in social situations. I would rather respect my personality and work on social status to add to my personality then to just gain social status that conflicts with or disrespects my personality.
I love myself but my self love can lead to loneliness and depression if I cant find others who love themselves and share my self love with. I love my parents as I love myself so I am not really depressed. When someone loves you as they love themselves you can establish a good healthy supportive building relationship. If someone doesn’t love themselves then a fun relationship can seem to be formed. But it might become more destructive to your self love of yourself. Also some people love themselves differently then the way I love myself and it can become an issue.
Get some therapy workbooks. They make a difference.
@Zoe That is very interesting, what philosophy might that be? I like philosophy too 
Try not to be too hard on yourself.
Some negative traits are there to keep you safe from harm, and maybe you don’t need them any more, but you can be grateful that they were there for you when you did need them. This can help you to hate them less.
Other negative traits can be a side effect of very positive ones. For example, some of the rudest and least empathetic people are the most confident, whist the shyest most cautious people are often very sensitive to the needs of other people. Again, finding the good polarity to a negative trait can help you to hate it less.
Good luck on your self-love journey x
It’s to do with Buddhism. But that might be seen more as religion here though I and others see it as a philosophy.
Do good things.
It becomes a habit
and a habit becomes who you are.
Think good things.
You become what you think of
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