That means I’d have to work at being liked, and I really don’t feel willing.to work that hard. I’m more angry that people don’t love me as is. I do get tired of myself sometimes so can understand why people don’t like me, but that does not get me through the lonely hours.
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I’m someone who has always been social. Often that has failed but I get back up again. Honestly being liked is a lot about being a listener and caring about people.
It’s never too late so approach things as a new friend potentially. Most people like to talk about themselves- you listen you often get a chance to talk about yourself—- your a very interesting person!
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That sounds like a you problem.
Sometimes you have to work to be accepted, but it’s worth it.
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@rogueone and @shutterbug My great fear is that I’ll make a friend only to lose him/her.
Too love is to lose. We all have that problem.
You get a pet. I lost Charlie of 20 years. I still, everyday think about that cat. People too. You have them in your life but that balance is that your not so lonely…
Human existence is so much better bouncing off ideas with others. I guess I’m a social creature but we mostly are…
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Are you good at talking to people? I think that’s half the battle because talking face 2 face can be difficult for me, i never know what to say im not good at thinking on the spot either. So im a bit fuc***
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I can talk but I’m always afraid I’ll run out of things to say and appear stupid. I hate the awkward silences.
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I talk to people and crack jokes with them but I don’t hang out with anyone but family.
The way I see it people are entitled to their feelings about me, as long as they are within the circle of reasonable expectation of my privacy. But it disgusts me the way some people have acted so entitled to run my life - people far beyond the reasonable expectation of my privacy.
People keep leaving me. I think I’m not a likeable person.
Kids and dogs like me…adults act leery of me and they can screw off! Cheers
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