How many of you are older virgins?

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I’m 51 and still a virgin this upset me when I was young I was desperate but the older I got the less it mattered. I’ve been ill from an early age .

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Im sorry to hear that. I was ill from early age too. Its not all bad just means you are purer and more innocent then everyone else

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23

I’m a virgin and happy about it. I’m asexual and find the idea of sex very unappealing. I would like a gay platonic relationship though. But no sex.

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24

Øh but you just met a boyfriend, didn’t you Zoe? You look so happy in the selfie topic

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25

I don’t want to be in a sexiness competition with other women. So I decided it had to end…

Here’s my thoughts.

26

He is an amazing guy but I don’t like the way he looks at some women on the street. I’m too in love with him basically so I have to let go.

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How long have you been seeing him?

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Since spring this year.

29

I know it’s normal for ppl to look at attractive people but it just hurts me too much.

30

I never thought being a vergine was a big deal I lost mine as soon as my mom let me date

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31

I’m 49.

Being in celibacy for 25 years.
I regret that I was ever in sexual relationship.
Listen to the @POET ,among all he’s wisest man I’ve met.

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32

I used to be very sexual, even promiscuous, in a lesbian way. But now, I am totally ace, and have been for many years.

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33

I chose to be a virgin until I got married. I don’t regret it. But it’s not for everyone so no judgement from me.

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34

Not a virgin, but nothing happened the last 10 years. I’ve not been up to it because of my health. I am only interested in a meaningful relationship in the first place though.

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35

I almost had sex at a young age but didn’t actually have sex until I turned 28. I wished I had continued to wait sometimes.

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36

Stop calling males virgins. It’s cringe. Males don’t have hymens.

Females could be virgins tho. Because they psychically change anatomy after sex.

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37

This is so true. I think it’s rooted in feminism, men were never called virgins until recently.

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38

Whaddya call them then? They’ve been called virgins by everybody I’ve ever known since I was a kid in the 1970’s.

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39

I’m not a virgin but it’s been a while.
I choose not to be in a relationship right now.
Not even looking for friends

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40

I’m not a virgin. But I’m a celibate. Have been for many years. I choose this life.

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