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Don’t worry, I know what to do. Instead of making striking remarks in my speech, I decide to use the one-speech-fits-all style. Being tactful and well-balanced in choosing proper words when making comments is my preference.
I like ur question I just don’t like talking about it too much lol I prefer hearing people talk about it. I think books help anf at the end of the day it does come down to experience n trial n error making horrible mistakes so that ur brain has an avoidant memory of what was a bad idea.
Whether a decision was right or wrong you cannot tell until death. What you thought was right at the time might later turn out to be wrong or vice versa. All you can do is to be as honest as possible at every decision you make. I try to have as broad a view as possible by learning history, etc. to know what kind of decisions people have made at what kind of situations and what consequences they had in the end. Sometimes big mistakes made me go into a better direction.