How do I get people to like me?

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How do you change people’s minds who think your a bad person?

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Be a good person. Do it consistently over a long period and people will come around. This takes years. Don’t expect results next week because that’s not happening.

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Dont even bother trying. Do all the right things but dont gaf if people like you.

I know about lonliness and all that. We never expect it but thats actually how life is. Even if you got someone in your life you are still going to be lonely

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Occasionally, but not for the majority of the time.

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most people are likeable imo

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Depends its completely a psychologucal state. If you are withdrawn and not engaging ect you might as well have nobody

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They have something called therapy for that type of situation.

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Lol endless therapy

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I think of it as endless recovery. Therapy is how I do more things on less medication. It is the best bang for your buck as SZ/SZa treatment goes.

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Very true lol
I think I am without mental illness but not with it

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It’s very difficult !

Once I got a bad view from close friend. We were like brothers, he cried and said I considered you as my brother. We are still in touch but not like we used to.

Once the trust is broken. It very hard to gain it back.

Only way is getting a better life, as a good person !

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I think he has a therapist he sees. He doesnt have to settle for less, i just think its too dependant wanting to be liked

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Say you’ve never worked in customer service without saying you’ve never worked in customer service.

:rofl:

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I like most people

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Yea … I can’t be too dependent on others liking me !!! But I also don’t want to be seen as the bad guy anymore

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I’m trying man… just like they won’t change in a week neither can I …

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imo most people have a good heart towards others

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I feel like sometime we make judgements about the essence of people. That can be a distorting self reinforcing lense tho…

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I don’t think you can dude. I think you just gotta be yourself and find like minded people. One thing I’ll say is that everyone is the friend of a gift giver. Not to say you can buy friends. But it certainly opens doors… Small gifts like buying someone a coffee, a birthday gift or something to show you care, a card even.

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As adults, we can make ourselves useful and help out those in need.

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