How can I talk to my parents when the in laws blocked their numbers? The in laws blocked my parents numbers because of how upset they made me denying things that happened when I was a kid. I’m not allowed to talk to them because the in laws claim after I talk to my parents and they upset me I treat everyone like ■■■■.
Now they are saying I called them even though the numbers are blocked. The last number I called with that area code was to my uncle.
@cbbrown. It’s entirely up to you whether you call your parents or not. Your in-laws should really butt out as it is none of their business.
I hope you are having a good Christmas. Is your partner home with you?
no she has to work, she works new years eve too but if off new years day. she works until thursday then off thursday then doesn’t get another day off until new years day. i get paid friday and i’m going to use that to buy an anniversary gift for my partner it will be 11 years in january
Do you live in jail? Because otherwise, last time I checked it’s a free country and adults can talk to whom they want.
And if you treat your in-laws like s*it it’s only because they deserve it.
yeah i know, i just wish i knew a way to keep the peace in the families. i told my partner if anything happens to me to not let her family and my family fight.
I don’t like how that sounds. What could happen to you?
Move out so the in laws will get the ■■■■ out of your business they don’t belong in to begin with.
I don’t know, anything really. My partner and I had this discussion already. She said nothing better happen to me for a very long time. She said if I hurt myself again it’s like I’m abandoning her and our babies ( pets)
Sounds to me like it’s mostly her parents hurting you. And also her through her inaction. I don’t understand why you’re still living with her parents or even her at this point.
I know why I’m with her. But I do wonder about why we are staying with her parents. We set a plan again hopefully this time we go through with it
There are laws against mistreating mentally ill where I live. There are laws against extorting their money from them. Your in-laws could actually serve prison time where I live, if convicted. Your partner would likely be viewed as an accessory and steeply fined at the very least. There are probably comparable laws where you live.
I don’t think you are understanding just how wrong your situation is, both morally and legally.
It’s illegal where she lives, too. Her case manager has offered to report them to the police.
I hope this is reported to the police. I hope the parents are charged and serve prison time. I hope they have to pay damages. I hope @cbbrown winds up with the caring partner she deserves. Sorry, I’m not going to be polite about seeing a damn good person get kicked in the teeth this hard and this often. It’s WRONG.
My case manager said give her a plan and we have to reach our goals. Most of it is honestly on my partner. File bankruptcy to take care of her garnishments, pay her fine get her permit back. Then buy a vehicle get her license. I’m pushing my partner this year. They think we can’t do it
Take it one day at a time. Things always have a way of working out for the best. Am praying that you and your partner have a good life … Hugs
This is my exact problem. She’s been promising to do this for the entire four years I’ve been here. And she’s made zero progress. To me, that says it doesn’t matter to her that you’re being horrifically abused, because at least her parents are nice to her.
No. They really don’t. She needs to take action. A lot of really difficult action.
I don’t know, whenever I take action things seem to get worse.
@Gramm you’re still new here. Trust me when I say there’s a lot of details here you’re missing.
Just unblock the numbers. It’s done in your own phone