I miss my mom and dad. I’m not speaking to them right now because of fighting . I miss them. I can’t talk to them because my in laws watch my face book closely they can’t access it but they can see who I add
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I’m sorry you are in a situation where you have to miss your own parents. Your in-laws sound like the most controlling, evil people in the world. You deserve better.
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Is there any way you can message them on facebook without adding them? The in-laws shouldn’t get to decide who you talk to, that’s abuse.
I’m sorry you’re in such a crappy situation.
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I don’t know if there is a way. I’m afraid they hate me now
you won’t know unless you try 
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They can’t hate you they’re your family. It’s not in the rule book
I thought you stopped talking to them because of their abuse?
You should be able to see anyone you please without being monitored by your in laws.
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Why would your parents be upset?
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Because last we spoke I got in the middle of a fight with my parents and my in-laws and to keep the peace I had stopped talking to them.
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Why did you do what they said ?
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Honestly I was scared, I was scared they would kick me out and my partner might choose to stay there. My partner claims that would never happen
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I seriously doubt that your parents would dislike you because of that. Many parents realize that their children do some things they consider silly when they are young, especially if they have mental illness.
If you feel like re-opening a relationship with your parents, I’d say usually in such cases (unless the parents are extremely abusive or something), the sooner the better.
(I’m not some guru of personal relationships, though.)
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I’d say get In. Touch with your parents, move out there and leave the in-laws behind
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You should talk to your parents if you like. They’re not going to be around one day. Spend time with them. My dad just fell yesterday and hurt himself pretty bad. I don’t let people stop me from being with my parents.
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Just make another Facebook account and talk to your parents from there.
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I messaged them but didn’t add them to my friends list …they haven’t answered me back
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I can relate. Stay strong.
Do your parents live far from you @cbbrown. Is it possible for you to visit them in person? My support worker took me to visit my mum when I was unable to get there.
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Glad you messaged your parents.
I really hope you will have a good relationship with them.
Hope they will reply to you soon.
Keep us updated.
