Help I don’t know what to think

My wife spent the weekend laying into me because she’s too stressed. Then she stayed home Monday sick. She was told she could stay home Tuesday too but she decided to go back to work in the afternoon. This is blowing my mind, because she said she could hardly think straight, and I greatly urged her to stay home the whole day to rest.

are you just trying to figure out whats going on with your wife?

I’m upset because she’d rather work than stay home and get the rest she needs…

i dunno perhaps she’d just rather use her days off at another time…dont let it get to ya!

It didn’t count as a day off, she works for her dad

oh true 8809709870987

I’m like boiling… then she forgot to come home

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dang man…i dunno im sure things will work out

It’s not good, I ate dinner without her

I think the communication is lacking

has she cut off from the phone?

I get so mad when Phil does this.

She’s yelling on the phone right now prob to her mother

She’s mad at you for posting about her on this forum. Perhaps you should consider toning that one down a bit.

She doesn’t see this forum

She came in to this forum just last week and scolded you under your own handle.

Who goes to work when they are told they can stay home and needs to stay home?

I had her do that, to even the argument

maybe theres something bothering her, maybe ask her whats up or maybe she just needs to clear her mind

This is more about me than her. I don’t understand when you say your pushed to the limit that you try to stretch it more, and for no reason

It causes contempt in me

So is it that you feel worse about yourself because shes going out there when under the weather to work? (Just thinking that as you mentioned feeling contempt).

If thats the case dont feel bad @Moonwalker, everyone goes through ups and downs and weird moods. Im sure her going to work instead of staying home has nothing to do with you and maybe just a coping mechanism. I know work made me forget about my personal problems for a few hours.

I hope that helps a bit, sorry if it doesnt though im sort of out of my element here.

But i hope you feel better.