Life is hard with brain damage
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Completely understand able, but not impossible with it. @Garbled
My best suggestion, try to focus on each thing you do slowly with love , tenderness and peace within your heart and soul.
Yes. That what i have to do. As i start with my girl. Shes moving in with me. And i have brain damage
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Even though you have brain damage doesn’t mean your not loved by someone, and be cared for. Just don’t forget they are a person as well and need love back from you as well even on your worst day.
I will try to give her all my love and space in my apartment. But with brain damage you are not a complete person
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Even though you think you’re not a complete person… Do you not even try to see through her eyes a moment?
1.) She loves you for whom you are.
2.) she’s giving of herself to you in many ways.
3.) She cherishes all time she has with you to be with you and to help you with daily life.
4.) this list can go onward.
Yes that is true. She loves me. She accepts that she loves an partially centient man a broken man that give everything he has to her
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@Garbled I know you have a struggling life, but you need to sometimes look outside your self to those around you. Not just for support but for their loving kindness, and cherish ever waking moment even when you’re having a difficult time. Even with your last posting, you’re beginning to open your eyes to a better way of living in your “Trapped Prison of brain damage”
I hope I haven’t made you depressed or sad by any of this posting, but you’re very blessed with her presence, and I think you’re grateful, but still in need of encouragement to go forward instead of laying trapped in what brain and body you have.
I dont feel great tonight. Life is hard. I love my woman. Shes all i focus on. She gives me purpose
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Always remember / write it down if you have to and tape it to a wall this following statement I now share to you :
I am a person, no matter how damaged or broken I am.
I require simple things like :
Love
Attention
Kindness
Extra.
For with this posted on a wall or mirror near you will see what she see’s I hope 
I understand completely, I have tons of ruff night like that, and even days.
The is no sunshine in peoples lives anywhere i look.everyone is suffering. No flowers. But my girl. I want to give her that. But its hard to do
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The flowers are hard to keep watered and healthy
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The main point was to get her the flowers.
Even if they wither away, she will always cherish them like you.
The hardest part is to be strong and show her your love for her.
I just hope I am helping you, not hindering you.
Yes. When she gets here i will show her true love. That is my purpose. And my struggle to to survive for her and give her all i have promised heris my mission. Now i need a cigarette. Thanks for listening to my poetry tonight.
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You welcome my friend, have an excellent Holiday with your Gal.
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