Just found out

from a written psychological test, that my “girlfriend” doesn’t even like me, let alone love me. And she just got done telling me, on the phone, that she doesn’t like me referring to her as my gf.

I have long known that she doesn’t want to marry me or live with me. How could I have been so blind?

She has been hanging out with me for some unknown, mysterious reason that she can’t explain apparently. I know because I asked her point blank for the reason. Unfortunately, the reason just might be money. Every once in a while, I give her a little gas money or pay for part of the groceries and things like that. She is always broke and appreciates the help.

So, I guess I’ve been a fool.

You are far from a fool. She is much more the fool. I’m sorry things have gone bad. Sounds like you’ve been there for her and she doesn’t seem to be very thankful.
I’m keeping you in my thoughts. ((Hugs))

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Thank you for your kind words and thoughts @FatMama.

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You deserve to be loved for the amazing woman you are. Put her behind you and see what comes next.

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Thank you, @Leaf. But, I am so done with women and relationships in general, of any kind. Thanks anyway.

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You are not a fool … I am really sorry that happened to you. I’ve been through something similar so I know it’s not easy to feel this way. But you deserve 1000 … Millions times better. I know you say you don’t want to be in a relationship. Having a relationship is not everything in life either. You will heal from this just give it time. :heart:

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@SkinnyMe I am so sorry about you and your gf…I hope you find love.

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You haven’t been a fool @SkinnyMe . You’ve been a good friend. Some good will come your way, I’m sure of it.

Sometimes love isn’t the answer to a situation but a source of guidance.

Unconditional love is something we could all use in our lives and I think that’s what she couldn’t explain.

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Thank you for your kind words, @anon80629714.

Thank you, @jukebox.

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Thank you @anon57786250.

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I’m sorry @SkinnyMe.
You deserve to be happy.

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Thank you @Wave.

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I’m sorry that happened to you. She is not a very good person to do that to you. I hope you find the love you deserve

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