I am in very bad sitiaution
I repulse friends and get hate on me.
my doctor said that is from the illness
have you got situation closed to that one?
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No any friend at all…$$$$
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We are friends @far_cry0!!! But I get what u mean real life friends, I barely have any, and the ones I have I don’t like except 1.
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sometimes I can make a friend but they don’t stay friends long bc of symptoms coming up
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I have not had a friend for 10 years. But I have my wife and daughter to talk too, I would love a friend more than anything in the world.
My last friend was called Marie and she lived in London and I live in Suffolk UK, we would both have a bottle of wine and talk about our day and our children on AOL instant messaging. She was the same age as me ,both 35, I am now 45. When Marie got married 10 years ago her husband got abusive and didn’t let her talk to me or any of her friends anymore. I miss her ever so much but I think her husband beats her up if she talks to anyone.
I’m incapable of having close friends, or even what one would call real friends. It’s hurtful and I get lonely, but I can’t do what it takes to have friendships.
I don’t like to talk on the phone. My memory issues cause me to forget things they tell me, so then it looks like I just don’t care. I often don’t want to go out and do things, so I just don’t get invited after a time. I get so distracted in my own little world that I don’t think about other people for awhile, and then when I do it’s been too long. Plus I just don’t connect past a certain point, so no real bonds are formed… it sucks. It’s always been this way and yet I don’t seem to get used to it.
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I have recovered well and live a normal life I have some people l would call friends . But it’s not like what most friendships I had prior to sz were like. I don’t enjoy doing things with people. So it’s just some small talk and being truly glad to see them and hear how they are.
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I am also incapable of having a real friend, but even a email friend would be really nice.
i Have friends most I’ve had for twenty years. I can’t seem to make new ones very easily. I think it’s the illness. It’s difficult for me to get to know and trust people now
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I quit partying after my sz so I think that has something to do with not going out with them.
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It depends on what you mean by the word “friend”. I’ve had my share of drinking buddies. It’s amazing how strong that kind of bond can be. Most of the people around me I wish well, but we’re not all that familiar. I’ve had a couple of people that I spend time with and talk to extensively, but they’re in different places now.
I’ve had friends in the past. I don’t have friends anymore. To be fair I’ve had bad luck with the friends that I had. Maybe I was a bad judge of character in the past.
i don’t have any friends out side of the internet. I talk to my old friends from high school but that usually is cause they are trying to sell me something.
Not a single person in the world wants me as a friend.
I removed/blocked them all, it is hard to have friends with alogia + paranoia + anxiety + low stress tolerance.
I have a few, most of whom I’ve known for several years. I find it very difficult to make new friends; I’m lucky to have the few that I have. I went through most of high school and part of my college years with zero friends, so I feel for you; I know how much it can suck at times.
I have a few but they’re all out of town.
I would… 
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So I was just thinking about how you said you would like an email friend. I found this site. http://www.penpalworld.com/ might be worth a shot. Also I know some people on this site some of them don’t mind PM. Your welcome to PM me anytime.
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All the people i call friends are fishing buddies. most of the time i only see them if we are going fishing but sometimes we do other things. Today i had lunch with 2 friends and we drove around for a while.
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