Have you ever played the

“Mental Health” Card, when you wanted to get out of a sticky situation?

You know what i mean. Lets be honest. Have you used your MI Diagnosis to your advantage? Like laying it on a “bit thick” for the shrink, so you can get those benzos your after? lol.

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My parents say I play this card :thinking:
Sometimes I do feel that way too.

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Yeah, im not proud of it but i have once or twice blamed having had drugs and alcohol recently before a shift on mental health issues.
I hate lying and usually refrain from it but work is such a stressful environment for me and i get desperate.

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You mean you had a session, got bad MI, and then didnt mention it? lol :smiley:

I actually think we should be allowed to lay it on thick, now and again - cos our voices are not always heard. Nevermind the stigma, we have to laugh off - and then essentially blame ourselves cos we got abuse.

Nah. Ive suffered enough. If ive got the curse of Schizophrenia, im gonna bloody well milk it.

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I’m on 2 mg Valium once a day. I had extra a few months ago and took them and I didn’t even get tired. I’ve always hidden my illness from my pdocs because I’d be wailing if I didn’t.

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You should always be brutally honest with your pdoc - even if your afraid of the outcome. If they dont have up to date information, they cannot help your properly.

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I don’t outright use my mental illness as an excuse but it’s inferred. If I want to get out of a party I’ll say “too many people” to get out of it and my sister will understand. I don’t do it often, in fact very rarely. I begged out of a New Years Day get together at my sisters because it would have been with a bunch of young strangers that I had never met. My sisters are pretty sensitive as to what parties I can handle and what I can’t.

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Yes. Thats what i mean. I cant say it, properly. But did you feel guilty? Or think you was conning them?

I have on purpose once or twice.

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Thats what i mean. I mean why should we feel Guilty? Its our condition.

I dont know. Im probably over tired lol.

I used to get trapped into attending social functions because I was so high functioning at the time that my family wasn’t going to accept any excuse for not going. That was a real problem a couple of times. I was accepting all invitations and once me and my sisters drove a hundred miles to visit my mom and my stepdad. About halfway through the visit I thought it was becoming too stressful for me so I asked if I could go in a back bedroom and take a nap. My sisters refused. They did that because they didn’t really want to be there and they figured if they could force themselves to socialize than so could I. But I got into that situation myself because at that time I was acting like I could handle any social situation so it was “ put up or shut up”

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Bummer mate. Your Sisters probably had no bloody idea.

Yeah, been there, with my twin brother. Anything to please them eh? And you end up dismissing your own feelings.

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