Have you ever begged anyone to kill/not kill you?

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Wow. How hurtful. I actually know a woman whose boyfriend held a gun to his head and she started screaming to him to do it, and he did. She was so wrong to do that. It was awful. My husband was on the phone with her when it happened. That’s how we know she was yelling at him to do it.

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I wouldn’t call it begging. I just asked politely.

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I looked up an another article since yours wouldn’t load. It says that that law does not go into effect until March 17, 2023.

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OH MY GOSH. That is horrible. :cry: I would be traumatized, if I were in your husband’s position, listening to that over the phone. I’m so sorry he heard that.

I don’t talk to my sister, anymore. She has always been abusive and manipulative, but she has gotten worse over time.

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For someone to kill you?

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@Blossom the whole “kill yourself” trend online is very, very toxic. I hate that it’s used by youth as an insult. My healthy brother said it to my symptomatic brother while he was having an episode. In his ramblings, the symptomatic brother brings up that insult a lot, so you can tell he’s thinking about it. It’s not something you should say to anybody ever.

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I have begged my ex-husband to let me die on my suicide attempts and also for him to kill me. I feel terrible for the stress and pain that I put him and the rest of my family through. I’m so thankful I found a medicine that takes away my suicidal thoughts and actions now.

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Yes. I was really depressed and unhinged December last year. My Dad was clearly not being supportive at all and I one argument I kept saying if he doesn’t want to help me live why not help me die. Freaked him out he had no idea what to do/say etc.

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Yeah. My husband is haunted by it. It was awful. I have a sister I don’t talk to as well. She’s just downright mean and always has been

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Wtf this thread is

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I’m so sorry your symptomatic brother was told that. That’s terrible. :frowning:

And I agree with your last sentence. Nobody should ever say such a thing to anybody else.

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I think that this thread is triggering some people. @bluebutterfly for example. It really should at least have a trigger warning like Aziz suggested earlier.

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But I guess the title of the thread implies enough to stay away if you are triggered by it.

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Ah sorry to hear that Bluebutterfly.
You know that you can text me. I don’t know if I can do anything, but I would care to listen.

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@Bowens i have just deleted my post, i don’t want to trigger anyone.

@anon8091425 thanks a lot, i will, hope things are better tomorrow

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I was actually more worried that the posts had triggered YOU. Not you triggering someone else.

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My brother was working late shift at McDonald’s and this guy wanted to take the money from the til so he held a gun to my brother’s head

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Thanks for your concern @Bowens . I just had the most shitty day, and when I read this thread I saw it as an opportunity to vent. But you are right, this thread should be considered closed.

I guess and hope things look brighter tomorrow.

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Yeah, my mom raised me with good manners.

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Wow! A lot of us seemed to have shitty sisters. I gave up on mine. I see her maybe twice a year at Christmas and maybe another holiday but that’s it.

Blood relations don’t mean a whole heck of a lot to me.

My sister as a mean teen told me many times to kill myself. I don’t chase after something that’s never going to change.

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