Happy Valentine's Day

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happy valentine everyone

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I havent thought of it in this way. Happy Valentines Day everyone

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Ugh. Valentines day. I used to really feel awful at this day. Iā€™m 29. I have never ever had someone to spend this day with romantically. I try not to think about this day. Its depressing.

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To all those without a ā€œspecial someone,ā€ donā€™t worry about being alone on Valentineā€™s Day. As someone who is married, I can say thereā€™s very little redeeming about the day. Forced romance ainā€™t romantic.

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Yea right. Try noting that your so sub standard that you have no one. Thats a really nice feeling.

Im sorry for being so down about it. It would be so cool to just have someone who loves me romantically . At 29 I mean, like, ugh. Forget it.

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Martin, try not to focus on the negative. Yeah, maybe youā€™re alone now, but what about a year from now, or 5 years. I hear you, I do. I went a long time thinking Iā€™d have no one, but when I was so down and despondent, the right girl showed up and pulled me out of a DEEP depression. The same can happen to you.

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Dude. Iā€™m gay. I live in a semi rural community. The opportunities to meet people like myself are rare. I donā€™t bother with the hook up sites as my libido has gone kaput. Its hopeless. Best strategy I can make is try and find a way to live life without love. There is no other viable outcome. Its a crap crap deal I dont like its not fair. Im so so so goddamm sick of everything in my life being unfair.

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Martin, I donā€™t care what your orientation is. Check out nolongerlonely.com. Itā€™s a stigma-free dating site for those of us with mental illnesses.

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Thanks. Im actually going to do that.

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Martin, donā€™t give up hope. Before I got married, I found quite a few cool people on nolongerlonely.com. Today IS Valentineā€™s Day. Probably a lot of people looking for someone. Whatever you do, DONā€™T look for love on Craigslist. Too many predators.

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Right so just registered and ran a search from my entire country. The last time some apparently logged in was 2011. Success! :smile:

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Happy Valentines day to everyone Give yourself a big hug from me and for me. Love and Peace

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You seem to be slightly more happy than sad. I donā€™t worry about not drinking. Being alone is not the same as loneliness. Be happy!

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If you do go on the date, you might try listening to her stuff rather than worrying about how you come across.

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Nobody realizes this but I love everybody on this sight.

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My brother brought me two burgers and a large lite lemonade on his way home - my payment for watering his orchids. 'happy valentines day"

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I miss the snow horribly sometimes, the desert just isnā€™t my cup of tea.

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You can have the snow! Iā€™m sick of it. Iā€™m sick of all of the shoveling. Iā€™m still sore from all of the shoveling. Iā€™m sick of all the missed days from school. It is beautiful when it first falls, but other than that, Iā€™m sick of it.

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Okay, here is what we must do, you can have my place for awhile and ill take yours, when we are sick of it again weā€™ll trade back.

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Sounds goodā€¦