Had a date tonight

Hello,

I’m sorry, I’m not practicing English enough for a few weeks.
So, be indulgent please :clown_face:.

I had a date tonight.
I met this woman on tinder, I liked to chat with her. What I liked was she has a very “simple” way of life. : Watching movies, cats/dog, listening to music.
I mean she was not faking a perfect life with a lot of friends and a lot of activities. That would have scared me because I don’t have that lifestyle at all.
She was a nurse but she doesn’t work currently.

I thought while chatting with her that she was bipolar, schizophrenic or something like that, but i really don’t think so now.
I had the impression that she kept things inside her. Or maybe she wasn’t talkative, I don’t know.

For my part, I am obliged not to expose myself too much.
I had a drink with her but it wasn’t a good idea. I had a headache and was a little paranoid after that.

Anyway I had a good evening.
There is an expression here which says “it is by forging that one becomes a blacksmith”.
I imagine the English version is very similar. Maybe it’s the exact same expression?
I just find that I worry a lot less than before with dates. This is a good thing.
The main thing is to have been there and to have had a nice evening.
Confucius would agree with me. Yoda too.

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Good for you @DetunedGuitar . Maybe it’ll work out :slightly_smiling_face:

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Thank you :blush:

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Sounds like you had a good time. Good for you. :sheep::sheep::sheep:

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Thanks GrayBear :slight_smile:
I put less pressure on myself, yes.

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I’m schizophrenic. Perceptive people can figure out quickly that I’m not your average Joe.

If I go on a date and meet a Psychologist, she asks herself, “What is wrong with this person?” If I meet a Nurse, she asks herself, “How can I make this person more comfortable?”

I end up dating a lot of Nurses.

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Hmm. . .

I Can Only Imagine The War Stories Of Annual Check Ups.

Rock On, And Such And So Forth.

nice dude! :smiley: 324342

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Nice, bonne chance!

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It is good that you tried dating, at least.

Do you often get headaches? I have experienced quite a bit of head pain, since the onset on my illness. Are you similar in this?

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Are you planning to meet again?

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Thank you all. :slight_smile:

@PinCushion
I’m not planning to meet her again.

@vangoghs .
I feel weird sometimes with alcohol and meds.
I drink little usually and date + alcohol + meds were not ok ! :slight_smile:

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Best to avoid alcohol, generally.

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Hey that’s great. Sometimes it’s good to meet someone at at a public park. You could just talk or plan a picnic with a blanket on the grass. There won’t be many people around you like in a coffee shop. It would be a little different and your possible new friend might appreciate your thoughtfulness and creativity.
Your English is quite good. Be sure to read a little from your books(or online I guess these days). Just now and then. When you feel like it. Good luck with your next date!

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Thank you @Tuzaatma , @vangoghs

Good for you @DetunedGuitar!

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