I think it’s great that you’re reaching out for advice. You may be self medicating with the wine and it’s obviously got you concerned. When I’ve talked to drug and alcohol counselors in the past it’s been basically the same as therapy only the topic is drugs and how to cope without them.
That’s probably my a good idea @labratmat I am moving into a new house soon and won’t be able to afford to drink so much anyway. Unless I cut all my hobbies out.
I’m happy for you that you managed to cut down. I hope I can do the same.
I might ask them to switch my antidepressant to one that helps me sleep. That’s one reason I drink the wine.
The last time I used was to self medicate a manic episode. I had no idea I was manic, no insight, but I instinctively went for the norcos to sedate myself. Once the underlying mania was treated (by stopping the ad I was on that was causing it) I no longer had the need to do the norcos. You may simply need a meds change and you could be fine. I’m glad you’re addressing the problem. Good luck.
I was spending £60 quid a day at one point down the bar. But i put it aside once i quit. Put what you would spend in a jar - and then you can see what your saving. And NEVER just have “the one drink” - cos it will fck you and you will always carry on and have more. Seriously. And expect to lose some of your drinking buddys as well - they wont understand, and ultimatley if you listen to them you will be back at square one.