It’s fine unless we meet people she knows and I’m introduced to them . I just feel so awkward standing there as she talks to them. Wondering if my mannerisms are sending out a message that says “We’ve got a bit of a freak” here .
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Oh i hate that too… i try to be engaging… but mostly i just stand there waiting on the interaction to be over… sometimes the i gotta use the restroom followed by it was nice to meet you is the only card i can play…
I stand there feeling as awkward and out of place as a spare prick in a lesbian dormitory.
I wouldn’t worry, I honestly don’t think that person would be thinking anything about you at all. If that person doesn’t know you he probably just assumes you are not saying much because you don’t know him, if he even bothers to consider the situation at all. I’m a very paranoid person when it comes to social interaction, but I always try to remind myself that people are usually too wrapped up in their own sh*t to think much about what I am or am not saying/doing.
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your probably over thinking it, they dont really care about that tbh 
take it easy and chill lol its winter we are aloud haha
Your probably just feeling like a freak.
The reality is much different.
Others are not thinking negative thoughts about you.
Could this be a variation on ideas of reference? Seeing yourself as a negative centre of attraction. Back at my old address, where it was more busy and there was more likely to be a bustling throng, I would see people seeming to look in my direction and would think they’ve spotted something about me which they think is funny.
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