Friend broke my trust

I told my friend I was thinking of training to be a Occupational Therapist. I told her not to say anything to my other friends as I don’t want people knowing and me not being accepted. Anyway she told friends.

I feel she broke my trust. I have spoken to her about more serious things but thank god nothing to personal.

When I asked her if she shares stuff I talk about she said if you’re talking about the Occupational Therapy course yeah I did share it. They’re your friends not randoms and I don’t understand what secret it.

I feel let down. What do you think?

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I am a bad secret keeper. Whenever a friend asks me to keep a secret, I ask them to just not tell me. I can never remember what people do and do not want me to share.

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Maybe she forgot that you wanted it to be kept a secret?

No she didn’t forget. I confronted her about it and she said they’re your best friends not randoms I can’t see the big deal. She would have told me if she forgot.

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Sorry to hear that. Sounds like she didn’t respect your wishes and took matters in her own hands.

Not exactly the nicest thing in the world

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Thanks. What you describe is exactly how I feel disrespected.

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I told my sister I’m pissed off with friend and she didn’t understand at all. Just said I want to be pissed off about something.

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Sorry to hear that :’(

Yeh she also raised her eyes. I’ve gone into depression.

It’s horrible when family look at you in ways like that. It really is stressful.

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That’s not too good is it. Now the pressure is on I guess. Just try to not let it phase you. You can still make it, even if you have to use more time than normal.

I finished my course for healthshop worker, but I had to use a extra half year to get it done, but at least I got there in the end.

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I have no one to text now as I usually text her.

That sucks. Sorry to hear. Maybe she’ll come round and apologise.

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