I feel like i should be going out & having fun but idk what to do, i usually just relax in my flat, I’m boring 
4 Likes
I think it depends on what your needs are
1 Like
Boring is good. I’m boring too, I just watch TV all day every day and only go out when I need to. Too many things can go wrong if I go to places I don’t need to go to.
4 Likes
I just went and walked around Walmart and got a few things. I look forward to sunday’s now for church. Soany nice people there to talk to.
I don’t do anything on Fridays, don’t really drink other than an occasional beer on whatever day. Don’t smoke weed either so not really the party type anyways.
3 Likes
1 Like
My wife has been away all week and she is home this evening. I have ordered pizza and I’m hoping to relax with her and play some Cribbage.
3 Likes
I feel like i should be going out and trying to meet women but i have no clue how to do that and i am all on my own
2 Likes
Meeting people at bars or pubs works
1 Like
If you feel the urge to do something on a friday night vs staying at home doing nothing…
1 Like
That’s good you wanna do things though. I’m getting to be the same way finally. In my worst days I laid on the couch all day playing world of warcraft on my laptop lol.
1 Like
@anon90598247 warcraft is fun though but idk if i could do that
Like i try and stay as active as i can but Friday nights are supposed to be when guys go out looking for dates and i just cant do that
I miss my ex partner we use to do things together i miss her company very badly
1 Like
Going out by yourself is ok. Not having a clue is ok, it’s just like talking to strangers. You can be very simple and direct. It’s obvious what you want, don’t try to hide it, it will come out as honest.
Just dress up and go talk to girls…
1 Like
I wish it was as easy as that but i really fear rejection and worry i will be ridiculed esp if they want to do things later on like back home in the bedroom
1 Like
Rejection is 100% guaranteed, most girls are super cool if you have the balls to ask them. Ridiculed is possible but it’s not frequent. If it happens don’t let it get to your head and continue asking other girls.
If they want to come home with you, that’s it you win lol
2 Likes
@daydreamer sounds like you want to do stuff but aren’t comfortable with yourself yet. Do you have any hobbies? Working out can be great for overall health and confidence, great place to start
2 Likes
I usually rest at nights bc i am busy during the day (busy for me) I have hobbies like sound production and i was trying to get into playing sims, maybe i am just stuck inside of my comfort zone
@dreamer54 i take rejection very badly, I blame myself bc i am inadequate.
I kind of have it in my head that everyone know i have a mental illness and wouldnt want to be with me anyway
2 Likes
It seems to me…
About rejection. It’s the most possible outcome, but if you try a couple of times you won’t get rejected one time, and that’s it. You win.
Sometimes they just give you a little bit of conversation, that’s cool. You met someone new that night.
No one knows you are mi, no one knows I am and it will go well.
1 Like
If you don’t try you will be sorry and lonely every friday night. You don’t want that.
1 Like
My friends want me to go with them to a nightclub latin night tonight but idk if i will go i dont drink they will all drink and dance latin i need to practice my spanish i hate that meds at 11pm make me tired n sleepy
3 Likes
Watch TV. That’s is exactly what I do everyday too. 
2 Likes