For straight guys : could you tell me your story?

with your partner in life
how did you recognise her
did she accept your ill
is she ill too ??
thank you

how did you know her

I have had several partners in life.
They were all “normies.”
No one accepted truly my MI:
I met them in bars.
Now im on my own.

“I have got a long line of heartaches i carry it well.”

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I tried to reconnect with my ex, but after she told me that I am fool to believe in voices, I didn’t really like her anymore

I’m slightly annoyed you made a thread for guys assuming they’re all straight. At least write “for straight guys” or something.

But I met my boyfriend on Tinder, he’s fine with my diagnosis and he is not ill.

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I used to be married to a schizophrenic. we didn’t do well because when we met we were both not stable and made terrible financial decisions…catastrophe…now I am with a normie and I like it…she keeps me in check…

sorry but
that what i felt
i wd like to ask in my question
but i am straight dont like to ask all ppl
just straight ppl

I can change your question if you’d like. So it fits your intention.

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yes you can …

I had several girlfriends before I was diagnosed. None afterwards. I didn’t want any.

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My gf left me shortly after I was diagnosed with sz. Now its impossible to have another one with my severe negative symptoms.

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I met all my girlfriends before online dating.

Friends of friends
Work
And one at a bar

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good you you seem like Casanova :joy: :rofl:

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I used to be :smile: Those days are behind me now.

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I have a partner for a good number of years now. She is a Nurse. When she hears “schizophrenia” she asks herself, “How can I make this individual more comfortable?” That’s typically what a nurse asks, I guess.

She does not have schizophrenia, but she does see a psych nurse and get psych meds for anxiety and depression.

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My last girlfriend was a hypochondriac. I broke up with her because of it. I couldn’t take it anymore. But moreso because she was using her made up illnesses to manipulate situations.

I’ve had a few partners in my life, but they were all before I got diagnosed.

I don’t really ask anyone out anymore. I’ve become super shy since being diagnosed.

I do have some crushes though hehehe :grin: .

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I’ve been single for 4 years now, I tried getting with a few girls after diagnosis, didn’t go far. I’m too insecure about med boobs and stretch marks from med weight and sz diagnosis to even try and approach a girl, and dating apps or online ain’t really for me. But at least I had some fun and a few relationships before sz.

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I’ve only had one steady girlfriend in my life, and that was before sz. I haven’t had a gf since becoming sz, but I’ve tried the online dating sites a bit and I occasionally chat with girls there. Nothing serious, though.

What year were you diagnosed with sz? How old were you?