Flirting question

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I was talking the other day with another woman about flirting.

I’m a huge flirt.

Love it.

Flirt with every waiter,

Dude in front of me in the grocery line,

Doesn’t matter.

It’s just fun.

My husband is the same way, so it’s not an issue in our marriage.

We both see it as harmless.

But there’s something odd we both agreed on that surprised me.

We’re a straight couple,

However,

Felt that when flirted with by someone of the opposite sex,

Found it to be of much higher compliment.

I’m not sure what the deal is there,

But if a woman flirts with me,

I’m like floating around thinking I’m a ■■■■■■■ princess for days.

What is that?

Has anyone else of any gender or preference experienced something similar?

I’d love to hear.

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Yes that’s happened twice to me lol. :smile:

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I think it’s cos woman sometimes understand each other better so it’s like some special connection thing. Oooh, like that.

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I met a girl who was working at TJ maxx who I thought seemed like she’d be cool to hang with a few weeks ago.

Anyways- I left without asking for her number or anything and was kicking myself in the butt for not saying something.

Well, I had to return all the clothes I bought.

She was my checker again….

My hands were literally shaking when I asked her for her Facebook and she had me pull out my phone so she could find her account to add her. Like holy sh*t lol.

I wasn’t even asking her out on a date or anything, just to be friends.

Wtf is wrong with me hahaha.

But I was over the moon afterwards for a couple days.

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That’s really sweet, @anon61987434

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If my husband flirted with someone in front of me I’d kick his ass.

I’ve been accused of flirting with men before when I wasn’t. I just am friendly.

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Why?

It’s not like they’re making out.

Or even really like each other.

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Idk. I see it as him thinking the other girl is hot and I’m now good enough for him. When I was married I never even looked at other men.

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Interesting.

Well,

If that’s a boundary in your relationships,

That’s your call.

I think being attracted to other people even in a marriage is unavoidable.

It’s not like you suddenly aren’t allowed to think anyone else is cute.

I feel like it’s normal,

But see why other people don’t.

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I think flirting is part of sociality and it’s not only fun but important. A source of comedic rapport. I believe in it. Keep on.

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I’m talking to the coolest girl from Kenya and all we do is make each other laugh… she seems real, if shes a catfish I’m so creeped out lol

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@Charles_Foster like to flirt huh? you’ve got great eyes, and I’ve never seen them but you taunted one time that you have great legs and I believe you…come over here and sit on my lap ! ha

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Pffffft omg the forum

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I don’t get many opportunities to flirt these days.
I’m single but not actively looking.

In the past, whenever I tried to flirt with anyone else, my partner or date at the time always got jealous. I find jealousy both flattering and uncomfortable. Ok, so you’re into me, which is good. And you also want to control me, let’s have a talk about that…

I’ve also been jealous as f***, I know the drill. I felt my worth wasn’t enough. Got insecure. Even obsessed. Ended up questioning my sanity.

So probably someone who’s emotionally stable and doesn’t need constant external validation would be a good fit for me right now. Someone who’d never sleep around, as I don’t do that either. Respecting each other’s private space and the right to chat with strangers.

I also feel I’ve got stuff to learn about myself, others and relationships in general. In my mind I’m still 30, age at which I developed sz.

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Lol 15charcters

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That’s wonderful!!!

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Haha!

I for realz have great legs.

It’s fact.

Spring is on the way!

And I have short shorts for days,

May have to spam the selfie thread with them.

Tis the season!

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My legs are fat. And so are my boots :boot:

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Pleeeeeease do!!!

Some daisy dukes shots would be most welcome

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We’re going to sex up the selfie thread!

And you know my 40 year old ass wears daisy dukes.

I’m from Georgia.

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