I used to watch this show called “how do I look” when I was like 15, so 15 years ago or so.
I remember them specifically saying on there that you can’t wear mini skirts after 30 (maybe it was 35) and now that I’m almost 30, I think that’s so ridiculous!
Either times have changed or that show really had no idea what they were talking about
No i don’t want another guy flirting with me. I hung out with my elderly gay neighbor the other day and he came on to me. It really turned me off. Made me think maybe I should be careful coming on to women in the future. It was very unsettling. I like flirting with women though.
I frequently chat with people when I’m out running errands, standing in line, etc. I also frequently compliment people (men, women, nonbinary, young and old) e.g. if they have a nice outfit, nice nails, an interesting haircut or hair color, etc. Even at the drive through sometimes I may complement the cashiers nice fingernails (I did this today at the Tacobell drivethrough)
I’m just trying to be friendly. It has never occurred to me that this might be misconstrued as flirting.