Everywhere I go people seem to really dislike me. Idk if it’s the way my face is or the stuff I say but it sucks to feel so disliked irl
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I’m sure some of it is just paranoia dude! You’re well liked here I don’t see why people wouldn’t like your irl. This illness sucks.
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I understand. None of my husband’s friends like me. From the first time I met them they told me they didn’t think I was good enough for him
He was a jock and bodybuilder growing up and in young adulthood.
He’s still a bodybuilder.
I on the other hand was a very religious do good type.
I went through a short rebellion from my religion and was a hippy for a bit but went back to religion.
Anyway, they found that out about me and instantly disliked me from then on.
To the point where only 2 of my husband’s friends talk to him and it’s about 1-2 times a year.
They keep hoping he’ll leave me.
I’m no longer super religious, and I have never been judgmental of others who aren’t religious. Yet they still disapprove of me.
It hurts. A lot. I’m sorry you’re feeling like that too
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Damn… Well it’s good you and your husband stayed together! I left my ex because of paranoia and now she won’t ever get back with me lol
Life is hard but not all the time 
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You’ll find love if youre looking for it man. Everybody who’s meant to be married has a soul mate I believe
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I’m very grateful he hasn’t left me. I do wish he could make new friends or get back in touch with old ones.
I offered to stay home while he hangs out with them. Maybe he’ll try and do that hopefully
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Hope your right bro… Would be nice to have someone to go through life with.
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It’s true dude! Trust it!
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I often think people either hate me or are laughing at me…random people on the streets or in the grocery store. A lot of it is a mix of sza paranoia and BPD cognitive distortion. It’s much more likely that these people couldn’t give an owls hoot about me. It’s exhausting spending all day reframing my thoughts so these thoughts don’t get me too down.
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Join the club of hated ones …
Naa hopefully you are not hated.
Even if you are you are still loved and appreciate atleast here on forum.
The other day I walked my dog and these stuck up hateful arrogant woman with prams walked all over me and said “omg we are sooooo superior “.
People in my surroundings have said they are superior and perfect and I’m worthless to hate n disrespect and hateful vibes at me and bully vibes at me etc for so many years every day.
Superior people would NEVER behave that way.
I keep turning other cheek and avoiding them and they keep hating.
I had a breakdown other week when I tried to volunteer work orientation and they pretend to be fair n neutral n kind while in reality being horrible.
I so fed up with getting treated like sh I t.
Suppressed “sorry I exist” is what they want me to say.
I have no space to be myself and Just BE!
I want space to just be me .
I want to be surrounded by people who love me , appreciate me, treat me with respect n kindness n wish me well n care for me as I them.
I want these idiots to have no access to me.
I don’t want us living in same place.
Thankfully my dr is genuinely beautiful.
I want to move but can’t afford to.
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I feel like I’m in the same boat… It’s got to get easier at some point tho. 
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You know you are premium for him.
He hardly deserves you…
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Yes, but make sure they’re an orphan with no other family you’re expected to go through life with as well.
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Thanks for the kind words @anon83704208
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hates is a strong word but really unless youre a candy girl nobody out there is gonna try to be your friend
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I’m close to your illness. Sometimes I just stay home. I think everyone hates me. Idk anymore. Hugs. Take it easy
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What is a candy girl ?
kind of person everyone wants to be friends with. really social extroverted girl.
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