Do you constantly feel people despise you?

I discussed this with pdoc and she said it’s not paranoia but I generally feel people do not like me because of how I am. Even the lady in the corner who said come to me anytime if I need to talk, one day I decide to go talk to her so called and she said she’d call back but never did. Several times. I can be bothersome I get that but I went to her twice after dad passed so I can’t have been that annoying :confused:

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I feel the same way. I feel people are always talking behind my back. I also feel like people on this forum don’t like me because of what I post but i guess it’s not true.

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Well, I like you, @anon80629714, think you’re a good person. @Johns774 I don’t know much of you at this point, but I have no beef with you.

I don’t feel like people despise me, I think the people who know me and are not creeped out by me generally like me, but I understand this way of thinking.

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People that know me, end up liking me.
Strangers don’t warm up to me because of my aloof nature around them.
This is natural I guess.

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I think it is just the feeling that everyone hates me even though they don’t know me well. It not logical though.

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I don’t feel they talk about me behind my back. But usually when I get the feeling of not liking myself and feel I’m a burden… that’s when I realise people must not like me.

I don’t think people despise me.

I just think they feel odd about me.

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I feel the exact same way. I feel like burden especially since I have a mental illness.

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I don’t think people despise me, but I do sometimes get paranoid that people who seem to like me secretly don’t, or that they, without knowing so themselves, just think they do because I fill some void or they don’t have anyone else to latch onto.

It’s bothersome, but I try to remember that they’re just thoughts.

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I think that you are a beautiful person ish

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There could be some truth to it, just don’t go obsessing about it. People have a variety of reasons for what they do.

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All the time.it gets old though

There is truth to it. I’m weird in real life.

I feel a bit the same way too. What is this if its not paranoia then,ish? Did your doctor say it? Mine also said that its not really paranoia what i have even though my diagnosis is paranoid sz…

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It’s just a feeling of not being liked. I’m not worried they gonna harm me and I don’t feel fearful of that. She didn’t go into the details tbh. :confused:

I try to post the best advice I can but a lot of my threads go dead without a response. I’m not sure why this is but it worries me m.

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OMG it’s happening. 11 min no posts, I killed the thread again.

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Oiiiiiiiiiiiii I went to clean my case

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I have no such problems.
I very much dislike secular society.
I prefer the haredi society.
I myself will try to follow Jewish law, everything apart from marriage and apart from having kids.
And I want to live among people who rigorously follow Jewish law.

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I think many people think bad thoughts about me. I think some of them like me but I think after being on this planet for 56 years, and having some accomplishments under my belt and trying to stick up for myself, yes, I think they still do not think very highly of me. I think its more a reflection of their own insecure characters and not something I am doing.

Hey @anon80629714, we would make a great couple, we have a lot in common. We could have long convesations for hours on the phone every day about how we are both victims and misunderstood.

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