I saw an old friend today. I feel like I have nothing going for me to talk about , and I feel like I am not likeable. Like I’m a loser with no life.
The worst part is that it’s not just a feeling that I have nothing going for me, I really don’t
All I have in my life is health issues. I mean I talked about family stuff but when asked what’s new, there’s really nothing to say.
I feel worthless
Sorry you feel this way. You have more to offer than you think.
Hey, it’s okay…
Honestly I feel like a lot of us might feel this way in our own personal lives too…
Idk.
I also feel like I don’t really have much going for me. I think it’s just us being overly self conscious?
Take it easy on yourself Coco
I think you have place in your life,and here…
Aside,you aren’t getting stoned in some dark corner,you are smarter than that.
Ps happy birthday 
Life is, by nature, insecure. Those who pretend to have security have gimmicks that will not stand the test of time. Hold on.
You could always talk about things like the weather but maybe she just enjoyed your company. I use to have a friend who I would barely talk to when hanging out but he always wanted me to come over so he mustve liked my company
@anon63380492 @anon61987434 @anon28667878 @Rainstorm @PinCushion
Thanks for the encouragement
I don’t think you need to be insecure.
You have your family, your new book club adventure.
And you just seem kind and intelligent as a person. Not to worry. She may have liked seeing you a lot more than you think
I find it hard to find things to talk about too.
I can start with topics I know but have to be careful cause I veer off and go on tangents and it makes me sound confused and end up really self conscious.
I come across as ranting so the best is practice listening and not talk
I also feel the same about those kinds of questions. It’s the same for me. Feeling like there’s nothing to offer others in terms of talk because i refuse to talk about illness with most
You need a hobby!
I agree! I used to enjoy martial arts, hiking and playing piano. I don’t do any of that anymore as I’ve lost interest.
I need to see what’s out there that isn’t expensive that I’m interested in.
Origami?
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Yeah, origami should be fun. I like looking at it. I wonder if I can fold paper into cool creations like that.
I have a funny question. How did you know it was @LilyoftheValley’s birthday? I saw no cake next to her name. I’m just curious, lol.
Time zone.
It was 00:15 am Eastern Europe …
That’s probably how @everhopeful knew,he is british (hour later)
Now is 03:07am
Lol. Maybe I am and maybe I’m not ! I like to just say I’m from Europe 
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Ok,Albion then 
So neat! Thanks for answering.
