My dad is going to need hospice care when he gets out of the hospital. I want to see him but I know there will be hostility from them especially my brother. Who last reminded me about the last time I spoke to him that I’m not getting my grandmother’s ring like I was promised. Which is fine and I will get no insurance money which is also okay. I’m just mad he rubbed that in my face.
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I’m sorry that it’s like this @cbbrown. 
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I’m sorry your family is being so cold to you that sounds horrible to go through. Are you close with your father at all?
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I use to be. We share the same illness so about as close as a father-daughter with sza can get. I worry sometimes I’m like him. We both are quick to anger, paranoid and distrustful of our respective mates. They don’t deserve it and I’m not to the point my dad is. But I like beer but haven’t drank in over a year because I dont want to be an alcoholic like him.
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I’m sorry to hear that. It’s hard when MI gets in the way of families. He may be like you in some ways but you can learn from where his short comings are. the fact that you don’t drink is commendable!
But back to the original topic I think you should go visit him. It may give you some closure. I’m sorry about the hostility that sounds distressing. But no matter what you do i hope it all works out for the best for you.
But please do take care of yourself as well.
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Maybe you could be assertive and try to get at least something from your dad’s will. Think in terms of security. Think about what kind of help you might need in the future.
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