I want a baby, but I don’t know (I don’t think) if I can cope if it had a disease or an accident or was kidnapped etc.
How do people cope with these thoughts??
I also don’t want my private part to split omg the pain
I also don’t want a stretched out vagina
I am scared of surgery
What if I need caesarian… Aghhhh
I think I can only look after me, properly.
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It makes me sad. But maybe it’s for the best… What with war and shitttty things in the world
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You feeling any better?
I sometimes feel a little sad about missing out on having children. But I have so many white hairs in my beard my baby would look like Einstein!!
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I have the same fears. I think I’d be a good mom, and would like to be, but I don’t think it will happen, and that’s ok. I think I’m enough to handle on my own.
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I do wish I had a kid sometimes, I think I agree with the sentiment that I am enough trouble for myself and that I don’t think I would be a good provider for a child. I mean I love having my nephew around and really like that he looks up to me and thinks I’m cool. I do okay when he is misbehaving or having a temper tantrum but really I do worry about the illness and spreading it. I really wouldn’t want to bring a life into this world who would suffer from schizophrenia. I mean, I don’t want to be a downer but I don’t exactly feel my life ia fulfilling or great. I’m not feeling suicidal or anything it’s just that I really feel don’t belong or fit into society.
I’ve thought about it and I feel I should just die off and lessen the illness from spreading into the population. It isn’t a virulent contagion, but it is hereditary.
Somehow though, I don’t feel that way about other people with the illness. I mean @Zoe if you want to have a child someday, I don’t think that way about you or anyone else here. You looked really happy holding your nephew and I don’t think any of you is a spread of the virus.
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