The neighbors. Invading my home. They push and push and I try to handle them. They will do their mind games or power or whatever they are doing for a solid 15 minutes until I give up and then they stop. It’s just insane. Of course they don’t care if they’re driving me insane; the goal is to make it so I can’t fight back to anyone. For their own selfish reasons. Been this way for a year.
How hard is it to move elsewhere?
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They’re literally going into your home without you wanting them to?! Call the police!
I thought your obnoxious neighbor died,
There are others?
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I’ve moved around a lot; I don’t like it much. But about three weeks ago I had almost resigned myself to moving. To be honest I don’t know what happened but I stopped thinking about it. One reason I’m keeping here is that I got a call last week from a woman who is kinda in charge of this place. She told me that just recently people had complained about me making noise by pounding on walls and doors. To me, that was my only defense.
The funny thing was that I told this lady about the crap those people were doing to me. The lady understood my tone and believed me. Both of us realized that whoever complained had made themselves look totally innocent which was far from the truth.
The only other reason I’m staying is because the woman said I was the aggressor. That was cool. I told her a few things they had done, but in my mind being called the aggressor is actually a positive thing to me. Because it means that I’m not passive and finally all the hundreds of times I have stuck up for myself paid off because I think as a group, that schizophrenics are passive sometimes. So I feel I win and that even if I can’t punch walls anymore, I will beat these people. And they have done some really, really rotten stuff. Very low, crazy stuff.
I lived independently in society for 20 years. I took care of myself with some help. But three years ago, after 20 years I am back in the system and I may be in the system until I die, so being somewhat of an aggressor can only help me. I hope the days of me meekly entering hospitals or trying to be nice when I enter group homes are over. It ain’t fair for me to try to be nice when the other parties are testing or judging me. No one will fault me if I come in a little wary or angry to those places.
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I want to try it an opposite approach like ignoring these people are avoiding them. But it’s up to you I guess whatever you want to do.
What are they actually doing?
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This building has four units. Yes, the guy who died was right above me. The other people upstairs I rarely see, I have no contact with them and I wouldn’t even know them by sight, they keep to themselves which makes them good neighbors.
I was getting along great with my neighbor lady until a new roommate moved into her home. I was introduced to her and she seemed OK. But within a couple weeks she started bugging me in the shower. Maybe some day in the future I’ll be able to describe exactly what they’re doing but my only explanation is these people zero in and get in my head.
So I take a shower most mornings and somehow I offended this ■■■■■ through two walls and a shower door. And she somehow magically tries to drive me crazy. But things escalated and now the normal neighbors are pissed at me I guess. The couple 5 feet across from my bedroom window started some sh*t and I reacted when I shouldn’t but I can’t see how anyone could not react., now were some kind of enemies. I’ll acknowledge I’m not innocent in this case but he ain’t letting it go. I’m tired, I’ll end it here. But I will sit and think hard about two things: How can I stay here is #1. How to win is #2.
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What exactly are they doing?
Edit:maybe you should talk with a psychiatrist or a therapist about this, will you think about that?
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I hope everything is ok. I sometimes felt like how you feel about things. I noticed it’s intensified if I don’t have a good sleep schedule and drink lots of caffeine. I am not saying it’s in your head, but rather if you think it’s possible parts of it might be, looks for anything in your routine that might intensify it. I could be looking at this wrong as I don’t know the situation fully, but just offering what I experienced when I thought people were trying to mess with me.
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Are you able to record what they are doing? Like audio? Then you could show the building manager and catch them.
If you want to win you need hard evidence.
I had a really terrible roommate that I collected evidence on for several months before I met with my landlord and we got him evicted.
Now I interview any new potential roommates thank goodness
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