Enlighten me: why send dick pics?

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Two days back i got a dick pic from a guy i barely knew.

I was not amused. You dont open your pants, pull it out and shove it in a random girl’s face, while you exchange a few sentences with her on the streets or in a bar. You dont do that on the phone either. Same.

Im also a little…surprised, amazed and puzzled. It is my very first dick pic. I have had all sorts of other weird responses, but not this. He seemed genuinely surprised i wasnt happy about it and sort of apologized (in the two sentences he could stutter before I blocked him in every single way). I found him cute-looking and had complimented him, but it is a very very long leap from “thanks, you look good too” to “please shove a pic of your naked dick in my face, that would be great”.

Guys…can you please, please enlighten me why any guy would think this is a good idea?

Hm. Not sure if this is too explicit for the forum.

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Some guys are just way too aggressive and cross the line. We’re not all like that though. Sorry you had to deal with this.

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I don’t. It’s rude and it’s harassment. I’m sorry that you’re receiving these.

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Thanks. I know…It is the first time i got one, so i know most guys are not like this.

Im just (besides feeling it crosses boundaries) genuinely puzzled as to why this would seem like a good move to someone.

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Yeah there are no excuses for it.
It’s sexual harassment pure and simple.

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I don’t understand why men would think a woman would like a pic of the ugliest appendage on the human body. Ewww

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Thanks all. I do think it is harassment.

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Well this may not be a popular answer, and I’ve never sent one of myself, but there is a demographic of certain women out there who might respond favorably. And guys know this. And if a guy horribly misjudges a woman like in your specific case, he knows there’s still plenty of fish in the sea out in cyberland and he’s off to the next woman who might actually be receptive.

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I indeed think it is something like this. It is a very fast way of checking whether a woman is into such things. If you dont care about being a narcissistic, unempathic harasser and just want a random woman you can get easily.

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In the U.K. it is a crime to expose yourself in public. They call it flashing. I don’t see any difference between that and sending dick picks.

By this I mean surely it is breaking some law. You can’t just expose yourself digitally without repercussions

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Yeah I think it’s against the law here in the States.
It has to be.

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I heard of a case of a minor sending a dick pic to another minor and he was charged with distributing child pornography.

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It must be against the law here too. If a guy ever does something like this again, i save number and pic, report it and make sure there are repercussions.

I read of a girl who saved the conversation and pic and emailed the guy’s mum to ask if she could tell her son to stop doing this.

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Oh. The idiot then complained about…consent. She shouldnt have shared this private information without his consent, he said, that was illegal. :woman_facepalming:

Maybe a bit of a study of the word consent would help him. The girl specifically asked NOT to be sent dick pics. (I do think it wasnt kind to the mum, who didnt consent either).

I do know btw most guys are not like this…

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Hey everyone I’m going to send a pic of my dickie!! should I do it???

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Ok im gonna do it!

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I have never understood those guys, it is not something I would like to show other people.

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Send him an armpit pic for revenge.

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Its not polite, its low class. Maybe he’s looking for prostitutes lmao I don’t think regular girls would like dick pics, its sexual harrassment, yeah. You can report him if you feel offended.

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