Ugly, or a feature ugly,
Because so what.
It is the personality that can affect.
But because the word ugly has negative connotations, I think if I were to say oh this is ugly, then I’d have to add, well it doesn’t matter that it’s ugly because it is the personality that counts.
Am I talking nonsense. Or not?
there is beauty in everyone…some ppl act ugly for sure…I know some beautiful women that are ugly inside and makes them undesirable to me…it’s what’s inside that matters…you’re right.
I think you’re free to call yourself ugly. I don’t see why you would though.
I just took a photo of my lady part because someone wants to see a photo.
And it just looks ugly. I tried to convince myself it looks ‘special’ or ‘quirky’ or ‘unusual’ but when I say to myself that it looks ugly, then I feel like I’ve hit the right answer.
But maybe that’s okay.?
The way someone tells you something is what matters and the explanation.
Like how I said in my thread intro.
Am I talking nonsense or not?
well they don’t call it “bumping uglies” for nothing…genitalia especially female is very attractive to me.
Haha I never heard that before,
What kind of people do you know? Sounds like an odd request.
You’ve brought up this subject before.
It is a man from a dating site.
He seems alright to me.
Lol my friends don’t really make the same request
I’ve changed the question, but yea similar theme.
Unless I’m mistaken. 
Call me old-fashioned but I would never ask a potential date to send me a picture of her genitals. But if I did and she sent the pic I would be pretty sure she would have sex with me.
Call me old fashioned but these pics of genitalia people send to each other is just weird to me. I would never do it.
But hey, whatever floats your boat!
Yea it is weird. But I kind of find this guy a bit intriguing with his weirdness in a good way.
So I thought maybe I’ll go along with the genitalia pic.
He’s not asking to judge if its good enough.
He just wanted to see out of curiosity.
It’s not really ideal but I thought hey he wants to know what he would potentially be seeing.
Just curiosity.
But back to my question aswell as that,
Am I talking nonsense or…?
Dating sure has changed since I was dating back in the 80’s and 90’s.
That guy said to me he doesn’t mind what my body looks like because he likes my face and personality.
So from that I feel sort of OK to maybe send that photo., and then immediately delete once seen.
He said that so he can see your body.
Hey. I see two themes here.
I am quite sure your lady parts don’t look more or less ugly than anyone’s. But I too am concerned over you sending pics of them to strangers on the internet. For various reasons. Privacy. Safety. Not wanting to signal the wrong things. Not wanting them allover the internet if he’s an ■■■■■■■. You seem to feel a bit uncomfortable, and rightly so, with his question…he has no right to “know what he will be seeing”. Imho guys who demand to see my lady bits right away…before even meeting…are not the same guys I want to be in a relationship with. If that’s what you want. It’s your pics though…so feel free to do whatever… but be safe.
The other topic. You can call yourself whatever you like. But I think it is nice to be a bit kind to yourself in this respect. Lady parts look weird, if you study them up close. All do. I think nobody can call you (whatever part of you) ugly. Because it is no use to say, and it is unkind. Even if personality matters more. It is just not a nice thing to do.
He has a foot fetish. I told him I have fungal toe nails and dry feet. He said he doesn’t mind
I couldn’t agree more with this post.
The guy sounds like a real winner.