I’d just say is to find someone you really like and be persistent about you liking them and then when they are ready to move onto something physical.
I have some libido & desire but I have erectile dysfunction. I want but I can’t. Imagine how embarashing this would be if you were naked with a girl…
@Gtx1990 if you really have libido, I believe the libido is your problem.
Lower your libido and problem solved.
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that’s a solution… but the normal thing is for him to have sex and not a life of virginity.
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I hate sex…I only want friendship from a girl. The idea of sex makes me wanna throw up after my last experience. My standards are really really high too. Like @spiderpig @sarad and @Jesspresso high. I’m waiting for the right gal. Gal=my sisters initials btw. I’ll have sex again but I’d have to go on like ten dates before I have it. I only wanna have sex with one more girl the rest of my life I ageee with @Csummers it’s a woman, not sex that you’re missing.
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you can go to a prostitute just for once so you are not a virgin anymore and that the energy of libido is released.
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@Om_Sadasiva if he lowers his libido he might prefer life that way.
He may try to lower his libido and see how he feels.
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I live a life of a monk. it’s great but some people need intimacy and love. virginity is not the solution
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@Om_Sadasiva I don’t agree with you.
I believe life is wonderful with virginity.
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it is. for us. not for everyone. understand the difference.
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Some people like Origen castrated themselves to live without libido. 
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@Om_Sadasiva I believe that having libido is bad.
I know that the Jewish lord hates lust.
In Judaism it is forbidden to ejaculate.
No thanks I like being a man.
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some people feel lonely and have emotions that must be expressed. we may lack those things. but we can’t make a rule for everyone. @Chess24, @Gtx1990 needs love.
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ejaculation is natural. don’t call these things a sin.
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@Om_Sadasiva for jews ejaculation is strictly forbidden.
But you’re not a Jew.
Now , as for Gtx.
Gtx needs to control his urges.
I don’t believe that having libido means you need love.
I believe it’s just a dysfunction of the body.
understand that some prefer to be monks among the world and others want to live life. everyone has his own dharma, as we say in Hinduism. everyone must do & experience his desires. otherwise he will feel empty. worldly people are fine. if they are virtuous, nothing is a sin. ejaculation is not a sin. lust is not a sin. it’s nature’s way to create more humans.
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omg. it’s crazy. you call urges an abnormality?
Actually libido is the most natural thing we have. Up there with the need to drink water and eat food.
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in Tantra even sex etc are permitted and are way to God. everything is a way to god if you think of God all the time.