The in laws cancelled their plans to go to Kentucky Kingdom for three days. I was looking forward to them going so I can spend time with my partner. But instead they are going to go somewhere for a single day and want my partner to go with.
How unfortunate. What does your partner think of these new plans?
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She’s upset. She doesn’t want to go but her parents like to guilt her into going places
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You guys gotta stick together. If she goes, you go, and vice versa. No more of this “divide and conquer” ■■■■they’ve been doing.
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I’m so sorry @cbbrown. Are they trying to get you and her to break up?
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Does that mean you don’t get to go with everyone?
Please tell me you are not going to be stuck home alone?
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If they’re adamant about not bringing you, make it the excuse for not going.
IF you don’t like them and its mutual, leave it to your spouse. If your spouse wants to not go, just tell them to shove off and take the blame. No reason she can’t still use them as a resource even if you can’t.
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I’m so sorry. That must be very frustrating. I hope you get to spend time with your partner. It’s not fair to you. This whole situation is very unfortunate. ((Hugs))
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Do you think maybe you’re making too much of this, being a bit dramatic? When I read the thread title I was expecting it to be something serious, not that your in-laws and partner were going away for a day without you. Granted, it’s shitty of them, but it’s just a day, not the end of the world, toughen up!
I don’t know if I’m being dramatic or not but my partner and I were looking forward to a weekend alone. I just want time alone with my partner. They take so much of our time especially hers that it would be nice to spend at least one day alone to go on a date. Last date we had was my partner’s employer’s Christmas party. My in laws go out on dates all the time alone with each other. My partner works 3rd shift so when she is home she sleeps either after getting off work or before work and when she is awake she’s over there. I just want us to have some alone time
That happens when you marry the family…
She doesn’t want to go so there’s that. Anyway I’m not so much upset that they want to take my partner for a day. It’s the whole not going away for the whole weekend that my partner and I were looking forward too. But hey just need to deal and realize ■■■■happens
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