Don't be so damn negative

Or turn that frown upside down… :frowning:

I didn’t know about that until just now. Now the rest of your post makes sense.

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here is a song i had to post

it might cheer you up :slight_smile: it does me

:ok_hand:

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These songs make me happy:

and

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love U2 and i play that song all the time but i had forgotten about that other one :slight_smile: haha

I feel a definite void, I think maybe flat effect, not sure.

But my daughter has interview with a job she wants making 30K a year. Yipppeee!

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I dunno. Sometimes sadness, despair, frustration, anger is the right, healthy response. Sometimes we need to feel those things in order to have the strength to make needed changes. Those feelings can be lumped as negative, when their ultimate effect could be positive. It feels like so many times we just tell ourselves to cheer up, stop brooding, here think about this happy thing instead, when all that means is that we turn away from problems and suffering instead of fixing it.

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I am a problem solver, cuz I know how to bring people together, and I have great interpersonal skills, but when it comes to me, I’m either too tuned out by my needs, or don’t totally know what they are.

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I’m usually negative at all times, but I feel decent today. I’m not sure why.

I know it’s nearly impossible to get out of that funk once you’re stagnant in it, but do something distracting and think there’s always tomorrow. One day at a time :heart:

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Typically Pharell Williams ‘Happy’ really does make me happy but now its pissing me off.

I can always calm listening to Black’s “Wonderful Life”.

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yeah I think I’m just gonna go to dine then just hang out with some close friends. It’s just thats schools have started and I don’t wanna bug my friends. all of them have children. Anyway :unamused:

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Yes - another great song:

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lots of sexy women on this thread :wink: :kiss: :kiss: :ok_hand:

Thanks - I appreciate the compliment :wink:

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Hah, all of my friends are going out every day, shows, parties, picnics, exhibitions and they work. I have to take the kid to ophthalmologist tomorrow.
Enjoy your freedom.

yeah, maybe that’s what I should focus on. I hope your kid feels better soon.

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is that actually a woman behind that mask @SzAdmin you little tease haha

Ha! Just joking. I’m no Bruce Jenner.

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I read this couple of times.

**If you have food in your fridge, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of the world.

If you have money in the bank, your wallet, and some spare change you are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthy.

If you woke up this morning with more health than illness you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive this week.

If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the agony of imprisonment or torture, or the horrible pangs of starvation you are luckier than 500 million people alive and suffering.

If you can read this message you are more fortunate than 3 billion people in the world who cannot read it at all.

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is your name still brian? or was that just a random anagram of another word? lol