I was excited about thanksgiving but now I’m not. I got blamed for my mother in law not wanting to cook said she was sick of cry babies. Then my father in law keeps tell me I need to get the apartment up to snuff meaning up to their standards. I had some help but for the most part it’s been me. My partner’s mom got mad that my partner helped me a bit.
I’m anxious and crying it just makes me not want to exist
Oh dear I’m so sorry. They are being out of line im so sorry you’re having to deal with that. Is your partner there to help you at all?
Sorry you are struggling today. It will get better.
The sooner you guys move out the better.
They asked me to come over, but I had to clean their bearded dragon’s poop
Grrr I think if I was in your situation my rage would take over
I’m probably gonna be the last to eat. I took the turkey bones out to the trash and they it seem like I didn’t just help them. I know everyone is sick of me complaining about my inlaws. But I can’t vent to anyone
@cbbrown If you’re paying rent for your apartment, it’s none of the in-laws business how you keep your apartment nor are they even allowed to come into your apartment without your permission. You have certain rights as a renter.
I really feel for you, @cbbrown. You have a right to vent here and know that people care.
I don’t want you to think people are sick of hearing about your in-laws. I am sick of their abusive behavior towards you and your partners unwillingness to make a change for your benefit.
There is going to have to be a time when you stand up and tell everyone that you’re done being stepped on. No one should treat you the way they do, and you shouldn’t allow it. You are allowing it right now.
The thing that made me maddest was we weren’t allowed to sleep past the time the inlaws got up yet my partner’s uncle got to sleep in till after noon he didn’t even work late the night before. No one said a thing against him. It’s like the inlaws use me and Kay while the inlaws guests use them
Don’t let theese stupid judgemental creeps harden ur heart my friend.