Do you think you are likeable?

When I came back from vacation, some of my friends were so so happy to see me. Felt good!
Felt like i made a difference in real life in my friends’ lives.

Do you think general 1/10 how likeable are you in real life? Is this something that bothers you in any way?
Getting fired made me self esteem crash down.

The voting is anonymous.

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I make a good first impression and then it’s all downhill from there. I don’t have good people-skills, I’m boring and I’m distracted much of the time. No, I’m not genuinely likeable.

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According to my thought broadcasting delusion and how I feel people think of me, I am truly hated, by everyone. According to how people treat me to my face I am fairly well liked. I tend to believe the thought broadcasting part more though.

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I put a 10 on my likeability scale…not stuck on myself or anything but I make friends wherever I go…I went to a party twice over at my cashier’s house. oh well…

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I don’t have any friends… just family so they are going to have to like or unlike me no matter what.

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I would put myself in the 4-6 range, I’m very odd and kind of hard to get to know irl but I’m very helpful and nice to people who are kind to me

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I voted 4 . Now I have to go away and think about why I did.

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I’m likeable to me. I’m giving myself a 10. And a medal. And a cookie.

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I have been told I am very likeable. I always try my best to get along with others. Whenever people don’t like me, it is usually for my absentmindedness which is pretty much a direct result of my mental illness unfortunately but that isn’t known so I just seem like a space cadet sometimes.

I remember once when I told my friend how someone had been mean to me he said “How could anyone be mean to you?? Being mean to you is like being mean to a lamb.”

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I chose 6, since most people seem to like me once they get to know me a little. It’s the getting to know me that is difficult; I don’t talk a whole lot.

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Lol @jukebox that’s the spirit! hehe

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I’m still here btw

Every time a job has ended for me I’ve always found something better. So I live in hope the next one will be better than the last. Granted I have quit most of them but that’s something I need to work on. The jobs have been good. Me handling the social situations is what leads to quitting.

Anyway you might not be a good fit for one company , but perfect for another. Don’t give up looking.

Am I likeable ?

Well I know I’m not hated. My family like me. They’re the only ones who will notice I’m gone. The rest don’t know I exist :frowning_with_open_mouth: lol

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I voted 6…

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I’d have given you a 10 @anon80629714

I voted 6 too. Most of the time, people like me.
My last job was a disaster as some people saw me talking to myself and I was making a lot of mistakes.
Felt like sh$t. I do not need to work for now, until I am more stable and have a good routine at least. Next job I will go back into social media marketing :smile: I love working!

The damn Latuda made me so ill. I just became stable just a little while ago :thinking: still it is recovery in progress.

Going to work is a big accomplishment for me.

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you better reconsider your actions and the effect on others. :angry:

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That’s sweet. I chose six because I feel that I’m not quite at 10 with liking myself. Liking yourself should come first.

Recovery time is important. I’m doing the same. This time I will take the time to think things through about whether a job is right for me. I’m also fed up of temping. No more accepting those. I agree with you … work is very empowering … but I wouldn’t say I enjoy it. I do enjoy the feeling of having a job though. If that makes sense. Media is great. I sent Snapchat a tweet to give me a job. Fingers crossed :confused:

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I was thinking a lot the other day. Do you feel the sometimes we see in others what we see in ourselves ? I feel we judge ourselves way more harshly than others judge us

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Yes I’m not making sense I’m gonna make another attempt to sleep

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I voted 1. Sadly I don’t make a good first impression. In contrast everyone loves my husband all over the whole town we live in. People always stop and talk to him and I might as well just be a piece of ■■■■ on the sidewalk. Oh well this life isn’t a pageant and I’m not miss congeniality.

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