I think it’s best you get out of high school before having sex at 18. I was legal for straight sex though. I doubt if the law is this way now. It’s probably 18 now, but I don’t have any reason for needing to know. 50 is a little too young for me now.
Honestly, some might. My cousin from Malaysia did. Personally, there is no chance of me getting a girlfriend anyway so I think they won’t be.
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Well the only explicit thing I said was what the woman said to me when I was 19. I really couldn’t think of any nice way to put it.
I guess this may be a little too much for countries outside the USA.
I don’t think it’s a bad conversation. No flags. Just keep pg as apppropriate but sex talk isn’t discouraged.
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Thanks @rogueone.
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Well, both my parents are dead now, so there are really no reasons to be lying about it now. I really wasn’t a virgin when I was 19 when my mom found out I was having straight sex which was okay. She would have had a fit if she knew I was having gay sex when I was 16.
The reason I knew it was 21 for gay sex is an older gay friend of my mom told me. Honestly, I had sex with him when I was 21 though. It wasn’t him when I was 16. He’s dead now too. He asked me if I was 21 when he had sex with me.
@anon54988740 Do you think your mom would have been okay if you had straight sex at 16?
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I don’t know. It didn’t bother her when I was 19 and it was with a woman. It was legal for.me at 16 for straight sex though. I don’t know about now though.
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It’s not too bad. He was 22 when I was 16. I was really happy with it.
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They used to prosecute gay men in the old days with sodomy laws and not being 21.
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@anon54988740 I’m glad the experience was positive for you and was consensual.
As far as women being more open to find other traits than physical appearance than men are is a true generalization but not true for every woman.
Men I believe in general are more interested in appearance but also not true for all men. I don’t place physical appearance at the top of my list of men I find attractive. So many other things make a person attractive to me.
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You’re right we should get back on the topic.
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Someone who does not look very handsome to me at first glance can become increasingly so via their personality. A personality can truly paint someone’s look more and more with time, it is as if it radiates through their skin and stuff and sort of makes them real lol.
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Physical attraction is so subjective.
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@Zoe totally. 151515
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I never considered myself attractive, but women seemed to like me. As far as the gay sex goes I made the first move. It wasn’t him. I’m still protective of him today.
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I can even be attracted to a man by their voice, by how they move, their smile, the way they look at you. Things like that too.
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Defo defo… It is interesting how someone I can find very attractive, my friend would be like…are you serious?
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@Zoe yes a person’s voice can be so sexy. And what their intellect and interests too.
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