Yeah thats how i am, nothing about me signals that im into guys, but i also feel like sometimes people can sorta tell. If youre attracted to someone then theres something in your eyes that people can catch onto. I dont have any interest in “acting gay” and i think it’s actually really unattractive when people do that.
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Okay straight presenting it is. I’m very straight presenting too.
Idk about terminology, i just made that phrase up. I dont know or care about what the popular expression of the day is.
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Well I don’t want to use words that are offensive like my grandfather used to. He used to use colored boy or girl which is very offensive to African Americans. I tried to tell him that, but he just got angry. Sorry for even saying them.
I am not really attractive with my lazy eye but I still got a beautiful gf. I think personality, money, family are too important. For example I won’t date a girl who’s a criminal or who’s family members are criminals, even if she’s the most beautiful on earth.
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I didn’t go to my eye surgery apt but if my sz improves, I will do the surgery.
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Yeah I’ve thought I caught women checking my butt out before. 
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Well, I’m 62 now and not looking for a romantic involvement again. I just want platonic friends.
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I won’t date girls who do drugs either. Even if they’re too beautiful.
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I wish.
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I doubt that any of the mods who are pretty young have ever heard those terms. It was probably the early 1970’s when my grandfather used them was the last time I ever heard them.
I am probably proof of this.
Damn it.
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I’m not sure which one you are replying to.
Was replying to the OP. Sorry, my phone is making my life difficult.
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The way you phrased the question, the answer would be: They can be.
I get smiles from women all the time. Been told that I have a face only a mother could love.
News Flash
I don’t give a flying F what people think about me. Had to learn that the painful way but I did learn.
I always found women who are attracted to the Bad Boy persona to be interesting. This one woman I knew loved the bad boys and from what I heard that bad boy eventually started to beat the ■■■■ out of her.
Be careful what you wish for.
-S
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You don’t look that bad. I saw your pic once on the selfie thread before you deleted it.
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Haha! Thank you.
I am pretty comfortable with myself at this point.
I dated this bear once and I was telling him all my concerns about myself and basically he didn’t care about 90% of what I was worried about.
He was nice and everything but we just didn’t click.
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I’m hung up on the age thing though. If I were dating I would prefer someone around my own age. I can be just friends with anyone though. My case manager is a young bi guy and has never been to a gay bar. It would be inappropriate for me to take him because I see him professionally. Then again that might not be his thing.
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My orientation is very fluid. I also have a few age standards but right now I am just working on loving myself. Therapy helps. We don’t talk much about sex though. It’s just not the driving force in my life.
I had many opportunities to meet at the saunas but that would be a great way to get bit by the bug even though it isn’t the death sentence it used to be.
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