Do you forgive and forget or hold a grudge?

[anon39015889]

Na, holding a grudge only eats away at you

[see121]

Don’t hold a grudge I am pretty forgiving. Had a friend who was like that too. She was really good at talking to people.

[anon4362788]

I hold a grudge. I don’t forget what people say or do. I will let some people go a lot further if they are friends and forgive them sometimes. Depends on the person.

[firemonkey]

I can hold a grudge. How long depends on whether fuel is added to the fire.

[jukebox]

I forgive, but I don’t forget…that’s what happened to my mom over my dad and her getting divorced…she remarried him after he left us for another woman but she couldn’t forget it…left him in the end.

[DetunedGuitar]

I don’t forget but i usually do not hold the grudge.
I don’t forget that some people hurt me but i do not think about it all the time.
However, I sometimes feel ashamed because I would have liked to react differently.
I hate to hate.

[Headspark]

I found holding a grudge affected me and the other person didn’t even know or care.

[November]

I hold a grudge…

[anon80490300]

I think I’m a bit of both I often forgive and forget but sometimes I hold a grudge but if that person does something nice to me I end up forgiving and forgetting

[SkinnyMe]

Everybody here knows my answer to this question. With me it’s ridiculous.

[crimby]

I’ve done things that I have been told I won’t be forgiven for, and other people have done things to me that I won’t forgive.

[Pikasaur]

I’m against grudges for the most part. But I wonder, are there situations where it’s ok to hold grudges?

[Blizzard]

Forgiving is the only pathway to forgetting. And that makes all the difference.

[crimby]

The way I see it a person has to quit doing what they’re doing in order to be forgiven for it. If they persist in doing wrong they have no right to be forgiven.

[Gregory_Betz]

I’m a very forgiving person.

[seanieireland]

I dont hold any grudges, i dont see the point of them, no one wins in the end!