Do you feel you are a needy person

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Ahh okay. That makes sense.

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The trick is to find other needy ppl

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Ok so donā€™t take my advice and donā€™t ask anything

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And donā€™t be rude to me I just wanted to help you

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You are just not listening to me thatā€™s not my problem

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Yes I honestly think that I am needy. Love means a lot to me. That is because I was not loved by my parents. I donā€™t feel sorry for myself, but it has affected the way I handle relationships

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Ok you just want to hear what you want to hear just it

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Im probably the opposite of needy. Pretty independant.

Mostly pretty. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Iā€™m offended ā€¦.

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Yes I do appreciate your effort to help me sorry if you misunderstood that.

But Iā€™m just adding that yes I am respectful to them because, as Iā€™ve already told you, I am distancing myself if Iā€™m a distraction

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I am incredibly needy. I need to talk out my problems for hours and hours, from multiple angles. Something that helps me is to write it all down in my online journal. Once all the thoughts are in the document, they are no longer stuck in my head. Then I can re-examine them from multiple angles, and it is easier to come to a meaningful conclusion. 90% of the time, I realize I didnā€™t actually need another person to provide any input. I just wanted them there to help me keep track of my own thoughts. If all my thoughts are on screen, I donā€™t lose track of them.

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Sorry if I hurt you that wasnā€™t my intention

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I am not particulary needy. I enjoy my own company.

My accounting teacher thought I was needy though. Apparently trying to understand a few calculations made me needy.

I do live with my dad but I donā€™t place any demands on him.

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Thatā€™s cool. I have a journal too. I do mine on paper though. Itā€™s extremely messy. And on my phone notes app are like 200 notes ugh I must sort that out and condense it.

Itā€™s good you are mostly able to come to conclusions by thinking it through on your own, given time etc.

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Lol what a joke

Sorry to hear

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Yes, but we need your neediness, so it is working out.

:heart:

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Oh yeah, forgot to mention. You can feed your neediness by volunteering. I do this, but most communities have a service that sends people to visit the homebound or people living in nursing homes. That one can also be good for people interested in acting, because a lot of them have dementia and will think you are one of their dead relatives, and you will be expected to play along. There are also programs for making phone calls to people who are socially isolated. Someone who needs to talk a lot is ideal for this role.

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I need a lot but what I need the most is honesty. And to be honest with myself and others.

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I donā€™t think youā€™re too needyā€¦ but if you need to hear it, if your needy than maybe Iā€™m not far behindā€¦

In other words Weā€™ve both been known to reply to our own posts when we donā€™t get answered (in my case quickly enough)ā€¦

Having you here makes me feel like less of a loner in that regard.

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Yes I agree with that honesty is so important itā€™s really at the top

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