What do u when when everyone thinks you’re a loser? I feel this way right now.
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Whenever I feel like a loser I try to remind myself that I’m actively working to be a better person.
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Im gonna die at some point and i don’t care enough about living. Im gonna lose either way
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Oh yeah! 15151515151515
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I am a loser and always have been. Not matter what I do I cannot shake it. I was a loser at school, college and university and now in real life, About the only positive thing I have is my job but I am not enjoying that at the moment.
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Yes, sometimes…
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“Comparison is the thief of joy.” Roosevelt.
We are all unique and we all the see the world as individual to ourselves. You maybe fooled from the constant barrage of media telling you, you should be this and that. What matters is how you see the world!
if you see yourself as a loser, then perhaps you have have a mindset of one. So you can’t be a CEO, so you can’t be a popstar, so you can’t be… What can you be? the notion is happy. Be happy and do what makes you happy.
Enjoy a book, do a drawing, Smile at your family.there is many a high powered executive who has belittled theirs. Go for a walk. Meditate. Be happy! Allow yourself to be happy. You among all people deserve it.
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I feel good that I accepted myself being an ABDL but I feel like a loser because I don’t want to enter the dating world again. The gay pickings are slim in rural Minnesota.
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So which holds you back, being ABDL or being gay in Minnesota? 
I had to google it.
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I am crippled by what i think people think of me, I fear my cousin his wife and my nan think I’m a loser brcuase they don’t know or try to know what has gone on with me. They just think im living off the state and a layabout. That hurts but actually I know that I have accomplished a lot I got a degree for one, it took me six years of hard graft I’m the second in my family to graduate, my aunt was the first and she is really supportive mum has told her a lot of what has happened and she always says she is proud of me which means the world. my dads family is wholly supportive despite me not having seen them in six years, they don’t judge.
So that’s other people’s perspective of me, I feel like a loser when I am crippled by fear and can’t do anything or force myself out of the door. I don’t like it when I struggle to do basic tasks. That makes me feel like a loser.
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Reading responses to this post made me think for a moment that I’m not accomplishing much, but after seeing a few positives here, made me think that some days I have it worst and to appreciate the days I can accomplish doing something, especially work! Some days I can’t even work because my symptoms act up, so any day I go without that, is a win in my book.
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Ehh I don’t feel like a loser. I’m pretty content with my life right now. Things are mostly going my way or as planned. No one beats me up for not working, and I’m much happier and less stressed by not working. I make a really good amount of money so I can live very nicely and spoil my wife and kids
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We are NOT losers!
We live with a challenging illness.
Most of us are fighters and doing our best!
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I am not a loser or will be in any of my lives on earth 
Every night in bed 
when i want to sleep, i feel like a loser. I feel overwhelmed and tired but i fall asleep and in the morning I have a new chance to prove myself. Do better, work harder and have a nice day!
So set small goals for yourself on a day to day basis and ofcourse in the end one thing matters
Are you content? Do you have a clear conscience?
It is the only real achievement!
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Rhetorical question you pose but I’m gonna answer anyways 
The ABDL thing isn’t a roadblock but being gay certainly does. I’m funny. Being gay, sza, and ABDL really pushes those societal margins.
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All the time, dude. I’ve failed at everything I’ve ever done. But, I hope to succeed in the near future. With a lot of help in the form of mentors.
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I am a loser. My brother thinks I should stop living off the government and work two part time jobs. He also stated that I was fat and that i needed to go for a run.
My brother is the golden child of the family. He is in great shape and he has a great job. I have nothing.
But I have a great relationship with my mom.
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Only when I think I may have taught a demon that only I know slang. 
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Your brother sounds like a jerk. I hope you feel better.
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We come from like, a family of ■■■■ ups or something…where is that picture…
aha!
the human race
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