Do u hate yourself?

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I think I hate myself, even if I tell myself I love myself I truly hate myseld

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I hate aspects of myself but not the whole thing.

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How can I find a mate and get married if I can’t love myself how is she going to love me

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We are still young man. A lot of things will come around for when its time for us to get married!

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Society is trash don’t put as much pressure on yourself

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I’m old I’m weathered my meds are unstable nothing is working. Even if they are working I’ll still hate myself

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Sometimes.

Usually when I’m angry with myself and can’t seem to identify the right feeling.

Could that be the case with you right now?

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@Magicfish you live in a wonderful country.
I love South Africa.
So take the positives from your situation.

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I mostly hate myself

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I was asked that by the short term therapist i saw. I was shocked. Did not know how to answer. Never though about it before. Is that strange?

I immediately wondered if it was a sideways question to see if i was suicidal.

So my answer was sideways too:
I am not happy with most that goes on with my ife. It is not like I am sitting there thinking “Gee, that butcher knife is looking mighty good tonight”. I am not self destuctive.

I really did not know how else to answer. I guess i kind of slink away from questions I feel are too personal or giving answers that could be easily misinterputed. (or get my butt locked up).

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@macy I love you!!!
You are an invaluable member of society.
Don’t you dare be unhappy about yourself;
I am proud of you.
I send you hugs,
Erez.

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Valuable …15151515

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You are trying to rush things that simply take time.

Meds to work, soul mate?

Both of those are notorious for not working with anyone’s schedule.

You have to work on you.

Medication helps, but you still have to put in a solid effort to feel better.

Are you seeing a therapist?

It makes a massive difference.

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@far_cry0 invaluable means very valuable

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Oh oops erez u are way better then me. Appriciated …

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I am not better than you @far_cry0 we are equally valuable members of mankind…

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We are both invaluable right here…confused…

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Yes both invaluable @far_cry0

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Hi @Chess24

Thankyou. You are very sweet to say that. I know there’s a lot of good in you.

i guess it is this one strange thing about myself (below) that does not let me neither love nor hate myself??

I have no Idea how in the world do i ever get myself into and out of the trouble and the situations i find myself in???

My life is one constant fish-out-of-water story line. Life is wild. The chain of events of my life have had good and bad beginings, which i could never have seen coming for either good or bad ending.

My life has taken such large turns oneway or another. Even I just dont know what to think of myself! lol

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Thanks rex,

I’ve tried plenty therapists before and I couldn’t take them seriously. I feel like they just buying time and don’t actually know what’s going on. I feel like im special in some way but at the same time i completely hate myself.

I have a good doc I think. But as you said meds can’t do everything. ■■■■ is just too ingrained in me. I really thought therapy would work unfortunately.

@Chess24 thanks my friend that is kind

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