I’m dating and I am a bit insecure because I am working in a bakery and making a pretty modest salary I think. Do women need to be doctors, lawyers, teachers, execs etc to be esteemed by men these days?
Let me be the first to say nope.
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Being a baker is a kick ass job! You can have any guy you want
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Honestly, no. You don’t need to be so self-conscious about your job. You love doing it, and it works for your lifestyle. I’m sure any it would rather have you sane at the bakery than overly stressed at some “prestigious” job.
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There is no universal thing all men want.
Some men may want to marry a doctor. But I don’t think that’s actually all that common.
Some men want model thin women. Other men love big beautiful women. Some men like tattoed women. Others don’t.
The only thing I think is fairly universal (although not entirely) is that they want a woman who pays attention to them and is nice and thoughtful to them. Which is not really a male thing but a human thing.
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Yes yes yes that’s me. Nah I like an innocent artsy brunette actually. But tattoos r hot too.
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When i first got with my partner she worked at a fast food place. She has had jobs since then but I’m proud of her and love her no matter what the job
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Men are looking for attention, affection or sex.
I personally focus on a girls character, I don’t care about her profession.
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When I was on track to be a doctor, I got picked up immediately by many extremely good looking guys though. Some do want money.
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I think it varies from guy to guy. Like for example maybe someone wants a more traditional life and wants to be the breadwinner so he wouldn’t care. Women traditionally want a man who is at their status or higher. But plenty of people stray from tradition, and in the end the heart wants what it wants!
Personally I’d be thrilled if I dated a baker or anyone that could cook 
I’m not a guy but I’m sure no guy could complain about that skill set either.
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That’s what I was going to say. I think some guys have trouble associating with high status women, and some won’t take anything but a high status woman. It’s all very individual, but if a guy is so focused on these things maybe he needs to be passed up.
If ur a smart guy, u might want a smart gal. But i thought generally it’s women who want that type of stuff, but even that is a sexist remark. But if a woman wants to be a housewife she cant be with a broke mf
You just have to find the right guy. My wife stays home and feels like you do sometimes. Love her all the more. I see successful ( job wise,) people are not always content. You just have to be ok with being who you are. God loves the Dr just like the janitor, we should also.
It’s only 51 seconds long.
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To be honest the only hope for me in a relationship outside of a woman living in poverty with me has been living off a rich woman. However I’ve noticed that the grand majority of rich women aren’t that dumb as compared to men.
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i dont rate careers or any of that a bull…i like the eprson without all the trappings…true love…i think alot of men are still romantic…in any case as regards ur date u could consider fellow sufferers as life companions/soulmetes
i personally havent worked in 20 yrs and can see ur perspective… i like a gf who could be my companion in life…no sex just friendship
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That’s very good. Got to love Seinfeld. Remember the episode on the ‘‘man hands’’. Hilarious!
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I’m more interested in physical attraction than her career.
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I think the better question is do you want a guy that cares that much about the job you have and not you as an individual? Hard pass on a guy that cares more what I do than who I am.
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That’s true but at the same time I sympathise. Why would a man choose a woman who is a contract cleaner when he could have a Doctor? It’s better.