This nurse did wrong by you.
To say what she said was unprofessional and awful.
If such a thing was to be said it should come from the dr and in a very empathetic empowering optimistic way that you can still have quality of life and hope for the future.
Welcome to the forum.
I don’t think I have seen you here before.(poster)writing this welcome to original poster asking question as I’ve not seen before.
I believe you can have a quality life and a better life than you have now if your husband is abusive I think you should leave him and not tolerate such behaviour.
You should not be abused by anyone.
A group home can give support and still give some independence and freedom.
I lived in a group home for a while.
I had my own room but shared bathroom, lounge and kitchen.
I got to come and go rather freely .
I didn’t feel comfortable eating with other people so I tried to take my food to my room and eat alone and they didn’t like that.
There is staff 24/7.
The staff were nice.