Confused about sexual preference at my age?

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I’ve always identified as being a heterosexual male all my life
But lately I wonder

The word bisexual has new meaning

Honestly I don’t know what’s going on.

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If you were bi you’d know it.

From what you wrote you seem worried? Could it be too much porn consumption!? Anxiety or ocd?

Or is it your brain overthinking things?

You know, our brains know what we like. If you are overthinking these things then I think you are a straight male that overanalyze your own sexuality.

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I forgot to mention. Sex can become predictable and boring. Perhaps you are just trying to find new turn- ons? Doesn’t mean your are bi.

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Sexuality is a lot more flexible than the official categories would lead us to believe. I think it’s a pretty universal trait to try to quantify our experiences, and we tend to do so using established terms and languages. But those terms represent approximate ideas, not rigid classifications. Just look at all the guys who identify as heterosexual but say they would sleep with Ryan Reynolds.

It’s similar to diagnoses in that way. Someone might get dx’ed with sz, or sza, or bipolar, or psychotic depression. The symptoms mostly overlap, and most of us switch official labels over time.

If you’re into dudes, you can be. It’s allowed.

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Yeah could be @Speedy
Thanks
Not so much worried but more confused
And I have been consuming too much porn lately
You’ve got this right

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Thanks @Ninjastar
I guess the labels don’t matter so much

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Maybe take a break?

I don’t think you’d figure yourself out watching porn.

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I think you hit it on the nail @Speedy
Thanks

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I’ve got the answers I was seeking

@Ninjastar @Voithos @Moonbeam @Bowens

Could you please lock this thread

Thanks

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